awesome0 Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 HI LS community, and thanks for everyone's post and stories they are incredibly helpful. So its been about 3 months after BU and more than a month of NC. Today is her birthday and it hit me this morning for no reason. I had a great weekend, I even met someone I want to pursue on Friday. I haven't thought about the ex much the past few weeks and was starting to move on. But today I've been thinking about her all morning and it's because its her birthday of course. The good thing I erased all ways to contact her a month ago so even though I want I cant contact her or even better I wont. Just a little rant about it. Thanks for reading. Stay NC
AnyaNova Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 Thank you for posting this. I have been holding on to his contact info in an email I sent myself and not blocking him on facebook (we aren't friends though). It is time. Because he's not coming ever. Thank you. I probably will be on later on crying about the whole thing, though. :-) I'm sorry that you are having a relapse. It is time to do my best to prevent one in myself. Keeping on moving forward, it sounds like you are doing a good job with this, even if there are small steps back occasionally! 2
Author awesome0 Posted April 28, 2014 Author Posted April 28, 2014 your welcome. It's extremely hard especially when your heart says yes even though your brain says no which is the case with me. Make sure you block your ex on fb, not unfriend, if you block them nothing will come through ever even on your other friends pages. Just a little advice on the fb thing. Hang in there, it gets better. My justification to help me has been if they find reason's to leave rather than reasons to stay in the first place why would you even want them back? 1
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