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Why can't I seem to ask her out?


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There is a girl in my dance class (yes I dance and it is a passion of mine). Last few weeks she has:

-been sending me the type of emoticons woman send to guys they like

-flirtingly agree to a date with me

-been sexually flirtatious with me even around other people

-purposely took my things I left on a table and placed it with hers so she could give it back to me

-shown actual care for me when some things have happened

-and all the other signs you'd think of someone interested in you

 

Obviously I like her and want to ask her out in person and not over the phone but my mind just kills me. It's like once I step into the studio, I go blank. Today I turned up 30 min earlier and guess who was there and guess what, I was just purely focused on remembering my routine and stretching while not even giving a thought to asking her out even though I told myself I would.

 

What is wrong with me?

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What's wrong with asking her out on the phone?

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I feel like a wuss if I do. I've always been that kind of a wimpy kid and for once I actually want to change my ways for the better and be a man.

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Today I turned up 30 min earlier and guess who was there and guess what, I was just purely focused on remembering my routine and stretching while not even giving a thought to asking her out even though I told myself I would.

 

What is wrong with me?

It sounds like you aren't enjoying the pressure this situation is bringing. That's completely understandable. Maybe you are the kind of guy who is quite private?

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