Never want to hear from dumper again ?

[ariesgirl-328]

Have you ever had this feeling that you never want to be in contact or hear from someone again for the rest of your life just so you don't have to deal with the past you have with this person ?

 

I was dumped almost exactly a year ago and I have only now moved on(FINALLY). Something that plays over and over in my head when my ex pops into my head every once in a while is that I hope I never get contacted by him again because honestly I was a bitch to him which is why he left me and then for months after I pathetically begged over him and apologized profusely....and now I just don't want to deal with that awkwardness that would surround us if we ever talked again(I can't seem to find the right words to explain the exact thing I'm feeling) but has anyone else ever felt something like this????? And I'm also wondering if I really am over him yet or if I'm not because I haven't reached indifference to the point where contact from him wouldn't bother me, what do you think?? thanks!

[STM206]

I believe this would be the "fighting back" stage. While you haven't come to indifference, you are finding that spark within you to say "no more, it's time to start making my moves to move forward".

 

Congratulations, you're at a stage that many of us are hoping to reach at some point.

[smileforelena]

i think the indifference will come without you even noticing it. i like what STM206 said about the fighting stage and i think that when you reach that stage it is hard for you to fall back to the crappy stages so good for you. dont over think it. it doesnt matter. all that matters is that you are in a good place now. the awkwardness will wear off eventually.

 

i can relate to what you said about not wanting to be contacted again at this point. most of us probably did something that we would rather not be reminded of. i know i sent endless pleading texts to the ex a couple occasions that i wish i could take back.