inlin Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Here is my story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/470762-what-just-happened So I broke NC via email to know why she dumped me. I don't care that I broke NC tbh, I don't want to be with her, just needed some sort of explanation. I thought I would deserve that at least. She never gave me any reason why and wont answer my questions in a straight answer. When asked why she broke it off or what was wrong she said that I should find peace within myself... okay Buddha. What pisses me off is that she acts like shes hurt and that she needs space to heal even though she broke it off with me. Sounds like she even hates me because I made a facebook post blasting her kinda (I know I know, I was drunk) and I was literally there for her all the time when she was down. Shes going to use that against me for everything I've done for her. I also said goodbye and have a good life. She responded by saying "Goodbye for now". Its funny because she also texted me before "Maybe our paths will cross again in the future.". Like wtf is this bs. Like I'm waiting for her. Sorry I just needed to vent and some ears.
FredJones80 Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 You might want to take a look at this :- http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/470829-all-new-2014-no-contact-guide "One: Very often, the dumper themselves, cannot really come up with a straight answer. They themselves may be confused about the situation, so you may get one answer one day, and a different one the next...." I never really got a straight answer either, just a bunch of different answers and in the end I ended up more confused than I started.
Author inlin Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 You might want to take a look at this :- http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/470829-all-new-2014-no-contact-guide "One: Very often, the dumper themselves, cannot really come up with a straight answer. They themselves may be confused about the situation, so you may get one answer one day, and a different one the next...." I never really got a straight answer either, just a bunch of different answers and in the end I ended up more confused than I started. Thanks, I already read that. I was too late to find it though, wish I knew about this site before the BU. BTW I just saw your post about your situation... Wow. So sorry man, I can only imagine what 10 years can do. I was at 1.5 years and was devastated. It was my first true love as well.
FredJones80 Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Thanks, I already read that. I was too late to find it though, wish I knew about this site before the BU. BTW I just saw your post about your situation... Wow. So sorry man, I can only imagine what 10 years can do. I was at 1.5 years and was devastated. It was my first true love as well. Thanks Inlin, lets hope things get better huh? I don't know how young you are Inlin but I suspect you're young enough to start again, keep the faith!
giblesp Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Nothing to feel like an idiot about, you got sucked in by a girl who is unstable and now you're feeling the after effects. If things are moving 'too fast,' for her because you went to her place and looked after her, then she can choose from the many A holes out there who wouldn't do the same. You've clearly got alot to offer a woman, in showing that sort of devotion when someone is sick.
Author inlin Posted April 27, 2014 Author Posted April 27, 2014 Nothing to feel like an idiot about, you got sucked in by a girl who is unstable and now you're feeling the after effects. If things are moving 'too fast,' for her because you went to her place and looked after her, then she can choose from the many A holes out there who wouldn't do the same. You've clearly got alot to offer a woman, in showing that sort of devotion when someone is sick. Yeah it totally makes me feel like I was used hardcore. She even blocked me on facebook too... like I did the breaking up and all.
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