Febreze Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 YES YES YES LOL. But seriously I cant believe he came back. Okay this is what happened last week so hold on to your belt buckles! The UPS guy I thought I was dating before but wasn't started making a few trips to the hospital to drop things off. Then I began noticing him more and more but I totally ignore him right? At last he came back again yesterday morning and made a point to come to my floor to seek me out. I gave him lots of attitude yada yada but he wasn't budging so that got my attention now He apologizes and claims he tried to make it up to me before but I wouldn't give him the time of day. I did the right thing by doing that right? So he asks me out on a proper date to ride with him in the truck during his off hours after he does some pickups or whatever and do sightseeing. I told him I'll have to think about it and he gives me his number again. OMG this is freaking crazy! What changed? He wasn't acting all cocky like he did before but he still had that strut like he owned the place which I do find cute I took his number and now I'm sitting at home pondering things over. Guys and gals what do you think? Do you think he's serious and realized he might've lost something special? He is 31 after all so maybe he finally wised! How should I tread here? I haven't told my sister because I'm afraid she might go negative on me so I am holding out on that for now.
mammasita Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Nope, don't do it. I read your other thread. Driving you around in his truck to do some sight seeing is not a proper date. You sound very young and inexperienced based on your post, but your other thread says you're 37. Make a man work for your time. 10
Chocolat Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 (edited) Driving you around in his work vehicle, which just happens to be large enough for intimate activities, is NOT pursuing you. Anyway, what do you mean that you thought you were dating him before but you weren't? This makes no sense. ETA: Do you mean this guy? The one who has a "girl" already? The one who's been nothing but a booty call? Nothing has changed. Nothing. Except that maybe his "girl" isn't available so he needs someone to take up the slack. Edited April 26, 2014 by Chocolat 3
GemmaUK Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 OMG! He wants to drive you around in his work truck as a date? Seriously? I haven't read any past threads but I would be giving this guy no time of day whatsoever! Meeting for a coffee is a date, meeting for a milkshake is a date, driving around in a work truck is.... ......does he have a mattress in the back? 1
jonsnuh Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 YES YES YES LOL. But seriously I cant believe he came back. Okay this is what happened last week so hold on to your belt buckles! The UPS guy I thought I was dating before but wasn't started making a few trips to the hospital to drop things off. Then I began noticing him more and more but I totally ignore him right? At last he came back again yesterday morning and made a point to come to my floor to seek me out. I gave him lots of attitude yada yada but he wasn't budging so that got my attention now He apologizes and claims he tried to make it up to me before but I wouldn't give him the time of day. I did the right thing by doing that right? So he asks me out on a proper date to ride with him in the truck during his off hours after he does some pickups or whatever and do sightseeing. I told him I'll have to think about it and he gives me his number again. OMG this is freaking crazy! What changed? He wasn't acting all cocky like he did before but he still had that strut like he owned the place which I do find cute I took his number and now I'm sitting at home pondering things over. Guys and gals what do you think? Do you think he's serious and realized he might've lost something special? He is 31 after all so maybe he finally wised! How should I tread here? I haven't told my sister because I'm afraid she might go negative on me so I am holding out on that for now. Soon he'll be delivering to you The Package. Couldn't help it. 1
Author Febreze Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 Driving you around in his work vehicle, which just happens to be large enough for intimate activities, is NOT pursuing you. Anyway, what do you mean that you thought you were dating him before but you weren't? This makes no sense. ETA: Do you mean this guy? The one who has a "girl" already? The one who's been nothing but a booty call? Nothing has changed. Nothing. Except that maybe his "girl" isn't available so he needs someone to take up the slack. I get what you're saying I really do and I'm not going to allow him to try to have sex with me in the back of that truck! No way Jose! If I do decide to go riding with him I will let him know that he better drop me off at a Starbucks or something of the kind so we can talk. I will not settle for less. Believe me I wont if I should decide. And I did do some thinking about that other girl he was bragged about when we first saw each other. I didn't forget that no way! I will surely broach the subject buddy boy!
starrynightz45 Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I know previous posters have said this, but it bears repeating. It's great that you're saying that you won't allow him to have sex with you in the truck, etc etc. But that's not really the issue. The issue is that HE cannot possibly be serious about this if his idea of a "date" is to drive you around in his truck. That is NOT a date. That's free, extremely convenient, and requires no more effort of him other than to drive a car around. You're really setting the bar extremely low here. You deserve better. 4
Shaun-Dro Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I know previous posters have said this, but it bears repeating. It's great that you're saying that you won't allow him to have sex with you in the truck, etc etc. But that's not really the issue. The issue is that HE cannot possibly be serious about this if his idea of a "date" is to drive you around in his truck. That is NOT a date. That's free, extremely convenient, and requires no more effort of him other than to drive a car around. You're really setting the bar extremely low here. You deserve better. Listen to the wiser Febreze. There's no doubt that this playboy working for the notorious shipping company called UPS, who I personally feel make a little too much money for their own good, has bad intentions. He's after the goodies and the goodies only, like many others have already said in past threads. You're obviously taken in by his bad boy persona and the Italian Stallion nonsense that's often common with younger dames. You're over 35 and should certainly know better so shame on you for the way you're actually considering giving this clown another chance because you're setting yourself for major heartbreak this time around. Far worse than previously. Guaranteed.
HappyLove Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I'm starting to believe this is a 12 year old trolling, no grown sane woman is this naive. 3
Shaun-Dro Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I'm starting to believe this is a 12 year old trolling, no grown sane woman is this naive. You'd be surprised, seriously. I have several like this in family who are in their 30s doing stupid stuff when it comes to life choices and men. I think it may have something do with living the sheltered life. And since Febreze is out in Long Island, yup, it makes sense.
Potion9 Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 If you are just looking for sex.. sure go for it. If you are looking for anything more than sex.. stay clear of this guy. 1
Leigh 87 Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 Do you want a man who is truly into you? As soon as a guy falls hard for a woman and he REALLY begins to like her, he IS NOT INTERESTED in other women. For starters. When a man is really excited about a girl, he doesn't have another girl on the go, for starters. I don't care what you hear about multi dating, and " having to get to know several people at once" As soon as a guy meets a girl he is NUTS about, he STOPS seeing other women. This guy never liked you that much because he had ANOTHER woman at the same time. Guys who REALLY like you DO NOT do that. Now, you obviously didn't get the message the first time that he just wasn't that into you. Okay. It is rather sad that you get all excited about this douche coming back into the picture.. You sound thrilled. Really? Look, I am also a woman and I know all about that giddy, excited feeling you get from a guy you feel chemistry with. It is our job though to learn and develop standards. By developing standards, I mean: demand what you want and stick with it. You have to IGNORE your excited, school girl feelings about a man if he did not treat you right. You cannot get all excited and jump for joy the moment a man comes back, after he was juggling you and his "other girl" I am telling you from experience that YOU MUST set he bar higher. You NEED TO find a man makes you a priority. This guy had another girl on the go; you were NOT a priority to him. One guy that was crazy about me drove me two hours home, and then drove the 2 hours back to his town to start his work shift. My good friend has tonsillitis; her bf is going to drive her 2 hours home, only to have to drive two hours back to his place.... Because he doesn't want her to catch the train.My own bf happily travels 4 hours to see me regularly. All these men actually took us out on dates and they all dropped other girls from day one of meeting us because they were super into us. I think you should seriously consider whether you want to bother giving guys the time of day when the only date they can arrange for you is driving you around with them in their work vehicle. He cannot even set up a proper date.His ACTIONS show how he regards you. 1
Author Febreze Posted April 27, 2014 Author Posted April 27, 2014 I know previous posters have said this, but it bears repeating. It's great that you're saying that you won't allow him to have sex with you in the truck, etc etc. But that's not really the issue. The issue is that HE cannot possibly be serious about this if his idea of a "date" is to drive you around in his truck. That is NOT a date. That's free, extremely convenient, and requires no more effort of him other than to drive a car around. You're really setting the bar extremely low here. You deserve better. I do deserve better than that jerk! I just got off the phone with him after leaving him messages wanting to talk and when he finally called me back OMG I cant even say this... He told me he was out at a party with friends and get this...his GIRL! I could tell he was high from probably smoking something and there was all this ruckus in the background I mean c'mon! Why waste my freaking time and make me think there could've been a shot between us and let me believe that he wanted to get his act together? I'm glad I didn't jump at the first chance to ride in that stupid brown truck! I'm so not letting him play me again. The goddamn nerve of him! What's with this *******! Does he think he can get any woman he wants?!
Leigh 87 Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 I do deserve better than that jerk! I just got off the phone with him after leaving him messages wanting to talk and when he finally called me back OMG I cant even say this... He told me he was out at a party with friends and get this...his GIRL! I could tell he was high from probably smoking something and there was all this ruckus in the background I mean c'mon! Why waste my freaking time and make me think there could've been a shot between us and let me believe that he wanted to get his act together? I'm glad I didn't jump at the first chance to ride in that stupid brown truck! I'm so not letting him play me again. The goddamn nerve of him! What's with this *******! Does he think he can get any woman he wants?! Lovely. He won't change. He already knows you well enough; he is not suddenly going to wake up one morning and think "wow, Febreze is amazing and I am head over heels for her, I am never going to juggle her and other girls again"
lollipopspot Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 This thread makes me sad. Most guys who are having full on affairs and have no intention of leaving their wives treat their mistresses better than this guy was going to give you. Your standards are seriously low, and if you keep accepting stuff like this, you are never going to end up with a quality guy. 7
kaylan Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 Wasnt he seeing you and another chick last month and referred to you as his "girls"? And now your excited for a field trip in a UPS truck lol. 5
Smthn_Like_Olivia Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 I'm still trying to get over the part where "riding around in a UPS truck" and "proper date" were used in the same sentence! 1
TigerLilly78 Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 What's with this *******! Does he think he can get any woman he wants?! Yes... and judging from how excited you were in your 1st post ide say he's quite successful at it..im sorry he turned out to be a Dbag but on the bright side least you know now with no doubts..
tdmnp Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 Well...a drive can be a nice date. But the guy should be single.
mammasita Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 Well...a drive can be a nice date. But the guy should be single. Not a drive in a UPS truck while the guy is still in uniform. ............Which I'm finding hard to believe now. Where the hell is there even room for another person to sit and enjoy a sightseeing ride in a UPS truck and is this guy a complete idiot that he wants to lose his job for having an unauthorized person in his truck? This can't be real. 4
Kamila Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 My co-worker drove me 2 times to my car, cos he wanted to be chilvarious. And I was curious about the kind of car he drove, his music choice, 'was the car kept neat... ?'. But nothing else happened in the car.
Valen Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 I do deserve better than that jerk! .......... I'm so not letting him play me again. The goddamn nerve of him! What's with this *******! Does he think he can get any woman he wants?! I don't think this is over. Once he says something sweet to you, you're going to go giggly again.
Author Febreze Posted April 28, 2014 Author Posted April 28, 2014 Wasnt he seeing you and another chick last month and referred to you as his "girls"? And now your excited for a field trip in a UPS truck lol. Did u miss my last post buddy boy? I said I'm done with this jerk. I finally told my sister about what happened today at dinner and she got a big laugh at my expense Yea he's arrogant and cocky but I don't find it cute anymore but quite the opposite And now I got work tomorrow morning and this jerk might show back up at my job sobered up with another pickup line. News flash I'm not falling for it!
babycakees Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 Please tell me this is a joke. This guy sounds like a total douchebag. You are 37 but sure act like you are 17. 2
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