Author Jordvn Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 If you want her to leave you alone, you leave her alone -- and that means you EXCLUDE HER from anything you say and do AND you avoid saying and doing anything that may cause her to trigger or feel provoked. You step down and move on with you life. You were just served with an RO and that's messed up your life, and if that isn't a big slap in the face to cut the shytt and grow up, then I don't know what is. You're no different from her. Wanting to post naughty pics of the ex, now lying about getting a girl pregnant -- seems you're as batshytt crazy as her as in you'd go through all kinds of lengths to create drama. shyyytt, i ain't no punk. i let ppl walk all over me my whole life, i'm not going to be passive anymore. she deserves a taste of her own medicine. everyone i talk to said shes a child, a brat, a bitch, and thought everything she did to me was ridiculous.
Chi townD Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 Talk to a lawyer, but I seriously doubt that you posting on your own blog is breaching the restraining order (unless the courts ordered you to take down your blog). And as long as you're not using her name in it, don't think she has a leg to stand on. It would be a different story if you responded to her blog (but this isn't the case). Your blog should be considered public domain. But, talk to a lawyer.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 shyyytt, i ain't no punk. i let ppl walk all over me my whole life, i'm not going to be passive anymore. she deserves a taste of her own medicine. everyone i talk to said shes a child, a brat, a bitch, and thought everything she did to me was ridiculous. You know what the childish, brat, b****, and ridiculous thing to come back with is? To fake getting another girl pregnant and announcing it to "get back" at your ex. And then you wonder why she is crazy. Probably because you keep FEEDING it. You're just as immature as her. Want to "get her back?" Lead a good life. Grow up 3
Zahara Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 shyyytt, i ain't no punk. i let ppl walk all over me my whole life, i'm not going to be passive anymore. she deserves a taste of her own medicine. everyone i talk to said shes a child, a brat, a bitch, and thought everything she did to me was ridiculous. You letting people walk all over you is an issue you need to correct by using the right tools to help you manage and overcome those types of situations and people. Acting like a bull in a china shop because you ain't no punk is the asinine way to do it, it isn't the smart and mature route, one that's going to actually help you move away from negativity in life. Creating negativity and drama begets negativity and drama. I said this I believe in a post on this thread. There is another side to this story. Seeing how you bluster, I wonder if you probably dug your own hole and jumped in it -- it wasn't all her.
Chi townD Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 How do you know she's been creeping on your social media all week?
Author Jordvn Posted May 8, 2014 Author Posted May 8, 2014 (edited) How do you know she's been creeping on your social media all week? google analytics. she also made fake instagram accounts so she could see my private profile. when i try to request the fake account, they won't accept me, lol. then she put the fake account on public and all of the followers were her friends and the pictures were obvious places she hangs out. Edited May 8, 2014 by Jordvn
David87 Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 Dude, if she's acting crazy that doesn't mean that you should do the same. Leave it all behind. Remember that revenge does you no good and karma takes care of everyone. Stop playing this silly games.
Author Jordvn Posted May 21, 2014 Author Posted May 21, 2014 I just don't get it. My ex dumped me & got a restraining order on me, but the moment she finds out i moved on, she try's to spy on me. I get phone calls from blocked numbers & they hang up right away. I keep getting friend requests from fake accounts, and its so obvious its her. Does she still have feelings?
learning_slowly Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 The fact that you're asking these questions shows you haven't moved on. You usually have to do something pretty bad to get a restraining order, so I think you may have the problem here. Work out why you can't give her up and focus your love on someone else without going over the top. And then do something to meet somebody new and treat them with respect.
ahthepain Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 If she has a restraining order against you I would think it isn't her. When my ex dumped me and I was trying to move on she asked friends about what was on my facebook, as soon as I left the same clan on a mobile gaming app she left straight after (everyone says she just wanted to see when I was on). It doesn't make any sense as she is with a new guy she is really happy with. It just boosts their ego I think. Try your best to move on and not care if she is thinking about you or not.
Elle1975 Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 I just don't get it. My ex dumped me & got a restraining order on me, but the moment she finds out i moved on, she try's to spy on me. I get phone calls from blocked numbers & they hang up right away. I keep getting friend requests from fake accounts, and its so obvious its her. Does she still have feelings? I had a friend of mine pulling a restraining order. Well, actually, a judge imposed it on the two of them. She sent the guy letters, drove all the way there, to another stated, just to talk to him. She was the dumper, too.. she's unstable, and not my friend anymore. People do crazy things. It's not love; it's not healthy. It's just crazy.
Author Jordvn Posted June 2, 2014 Author Posted June 2, 2014 So yesterday, I got a notification that my ex liked my photo on instagram, then she un liked it 5 minutes later. I don't know what to do anymore, shes creepin on me after getting a RO. The truth is i still love her. I was thinking about talking to her friend and seeing how she really feels about me...
CarrieT Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 I was thinking about talking to her friend and seeing how she really feels about me... NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!! The woman has TOXIC written all over her. Please, please, please move on already!
stillafool Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 So yesterday, I got a notification that my ex liked my photo on instagram, then she un liked it 5 minutes later. I don't know what to do anymore, shes creepin on me after getting a RO. The truth is i still love her. I was thinking about talking to her friend and seeing how she really feels about me... Are you kidding me???????? After all this talk about REVENGE!!!! No wonder you won't move on. Geesh! 1
Chi townD Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 I.....give......up. Okay door number one or door number two. Door number one is your train of thought and door number two is hers. 1. She's curious about your life and really wants to get in contact with you but she doesn't know how to broach the subject. So, call her up! 2. She's baiting you to break the restraining order. So, call her up and see if this is the case. Out of the two which one sounds like the best option. I hope to God you say EITHER!!!!!!!
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 So yesterday, I got a notification that my ex liked my photo on instagram, then she un liked it 5 minutes later. I don't know what to do anymore, shes creepin on me after getting a RO. The truth is i still love her. I was thinking about talking to her friend and seeing how she really feels about me... http://media.tumblr.com/fafba8223db3be709eed3dde2698329b/tumblr_inline_mg4mbsjHfP1ry4qim.gif So...REVENGE REVENGE.....I love her so much Being nosey doesnt mean a damn thing. It means.....well, she is nosey. She probably was scrolling your pics and liked something on accident. Very common.
me85 Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 Two wrongs don't make a right. It is unfortunate that this is happening to you and I have absolutely no words of advice. Sorry. I just wanted to chime in and say I don't think it would serve you well to post pictures of her. In fact, it could quite possibly make your situation a lot worse. New charges could be pressed against you.
CaliBabe Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 She put a 5 year restraining order on you, lied, jeaporidzed your future... And you love her, miss her and want to contact her? ...Just soak that in for a moment.
stillafool Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 She put a 5 year restraining order on you, lied, jeaporidzed your future... And you love her, miss her and want to contact her? ...Just soak that in for a moment. She practically ruined his life. This should let loveshackers know that anytime someone posts about their exes and how they much they dislike them the truth is they really love that person or they wouldn't waste time to start a thread about them. 1
Chi townD Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Dude, when a woman uses the police and the courts to destroy a guy because she finds out she can and she see's how easy it is, that is a VERY dangerous person to be around. Dude, run and NEVER look back! 1
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