Author Jordvn Posted May 3, 2014 Author Posted May 3, 2014 lol. don't take life too seriously guys. thats what that bitch gets.
disclosure Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 Wow..you and your ex both sound like you're about 12 years old. This is ridiculous. Grow up dude. You and your friends are idiots. Ugh. You're a child. All of this. /thread. 4
STM206 Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 The fact that you state "that's what the bitch gets" shows that there wasn't anything of substance between you both in the first place. We can be as pissed off at our exes but creating rumors and unnecessary drama is bull****. 1
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 So me and my friends made a rumor that I got a new imirl pregnant to piss of my ex who lied and got a restraining order on me. lol, I guess it's bugging her because she's making fake Instagram accounts to look at my profile. it's so obvious that's itis, ths her because I never go on it, and never get requests. guess I'm getting revenge by her not knowing what's going on in my life... You dont listen to anyone on here, you're incredibly defiant, and highly immature. For someone as old as you are, you should be highly ashamed and embarrassed of your actions, not promoting. Obviously, you arent and that's really sad. Even as messed up as today's culture is, this is way over the top. Your ex did the right thing. Now move on 1
Chi townD Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 Dude, you want revenge? Then, the best revenge you can get is to lead a damn good life. Okay, so she threw up a road block in your way. There are other paths you can go down! You want to go to school? Then go to school! I'm a Professor at a University and I can tell you that you can get in. Because of the economy, less and less people are going to school. So, enrollment is down. If you showed up wanting an education, THEY WILL FIND YOU THE MONEY! There are grants you can apply for and there's a ton of scholarships you can apply for. Hell, there's even a scholarship for left handed people!!! So, you need to look at things in a different light. Look outside the box. She didn't ruin your future. She just tried to stop you in the direction you wanted to go. The Navy is great, but it's a 5 year obligation just to get that post 9/11 GI Bill. Dude, you're not done. Not by a long shot. 1
saltyfishhead666 Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 if you know my story, my ex served me with a restraining order. we went to court and she lied about almost everything. i couldn't give enough evidence to defend myself and the judge granted it to her for 5 years. i also found out that i cannot join the navy because its considered domestic violence. this is making me even more depressed, because i was looking forward to traveling, and getting college paid for. i feel like posting dirty pictures of my ex online that will get her fired from her job! she needs to get a taste of her own medicine. Even if she screwed up your life two wrongs don't make a right. Posting pictures of her naked not only will achieve nothing for you, in the uk it's a criminal offence. So you'd likely get yourself in a whole heap more of trouble. With a restraining order already all you are doing is reinforcing it. Forget her and move on. You are bitter and hurt but that's life and nothing you do bar moving on will change that.
WYSWYG Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 I can understand your anger OP and I know you, like most of us here, is going thru a very dark chapter of life. But know that we all wanna be supportive even if that means telling you things you'd rather not hear. In your current emotional state, the truth is very hard to handle. The feeling of injustice and unfairness is overbearing. None of us here will really know what you went thru but most of us has gone or also going thru that angry phase. It's a big part of the healing process. I know I still am and I know my questions will never be answered. Recalling 3 years years ago, I wanted to really wreck havoc to my ex and jeopardize her career. I made the crucial phone call but my conscience prevailed and saved it the last minute. I'm friends with that ex again now and can only think what could have happened if that call was taken and accomplished it's intent. I'm glad it didn't. There's ALWAYS 2 sides in everything - the yin/yang go hand in hand. I'm still so pissed on my recent BU. Sometimes my brain would still plot devious plans against her but I'm aware of it. I just take the anger w/ me to the gym and use it on my workouts. I feel your anger. I just hope you find a way to channel that hate into something constructive. Save yourself from something you'll regret in life. Hang in there; when you hit bottom the only other way is up....
Author Jordvn Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 (edited) wow, so this morning my friend sends me a link from my exs blog. she wrote "RESTRAINING ORDERS: thanks to the police department for informing me when a contract has been breached...delete your sh*t, or you're going to jail." wtf? i'm not supposed to have social media if i have a RO on me? she's been stalking me all week on social media because i made a joke i'm having a baby with someone else. then she posted a picture with her and her new boyfriend that i knew she was cheating on me with. as of now, she deleted her tumblr after 6 years of having it. why can't she let me be & move on with my life? she's f*cking crazy! Edited May 7, 2014 by Jordvn
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 wow, so this morning my friend sends me a link from my exs blog. she wrote "RESTRAINING ORDERS: thanks to the police department for informing me when a contract has been breached...delete your sh*t, or you're going to jail." wtf? i'm not supposed to have social media if i have a RO on me? she's been stalking me all week on social media because i made a joke i'm having a baby with someone else. then she posted a picture with her and her new boyfriend that i knew she was cheating on me with. as of now, she deleted her tumblr after 6 years of having it. why can't she let me be & move on with my life? she's f*cking crazy! Dude, this broad is CRAZY. Don't do anything to exacerbate this situation. Get away. Far away. Physically and emotionally. As fast as possible!!
Author Jordvn Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 Dude, this broad is CRAZY. Don't do anything to exacerbate this situation. Get away. Far away. Physically and emotionally. As fast as possible!! you ain't lying! at least i know she was cheating on me & that shes a jealous psychopath!
Poppyolive Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 Dude you need to stop winding her up too ...saying you're having a baby with someone else, you shouldn't even be seeing/reading her profile where she put up a pic of her and the boy she cheated on you with.... Get out of the crazy rat race. If you're hurting work on yourself. She doesn't matter. You really need to block her and restrain yourself from finding info on her....you know what I'm talking about....you're watching her moves...(tumblir down, blog) as you're at it tell your friends to atop feeding you info.
Poppyolive Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 Plus. "Why can't she let me be to move on with my life " dude come on.....why can't you let it be and move on with your own life. Cut her out..... It's very simple.
Author Jordvn Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 Dude you need to stop winding her up too ...saying you're having a baby with someone else, you shouldn't even be seeing/reading her profile where she put up a pic of her and the boy she cheated on you with.... Get out of the crazy rat race. If you're hurting work on yourself. She doesn't matter. You really need to block her and restrain yourself from finding info on her....you know what I'm talking about....you're watching her moves...(tumblir down, blog) as you're at it tell your friends to atop feeding you info. i'm trying. i'm not paying any attention to her, but my friend sent me that link to warn me. i'm trying to distance myself. i made the mistake of the joke, now shes reacting to it. man, if i get married to someone else she'll find a way to ruin my life again. i've tried to cut her out, but she's the one stalking me & threatening to put me in jail for stupid sh*t!
Poppyolive Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 i'm trying. i'm not paying any attention to her, but my friend sent me that link to warn me. i'm trying to distance myself. i made the mistake of the joke, now shes reacting to it. man, if i get married to someone else she'll find a way to ruin my life again. i've tried to cut her out, but she's the one stalking me & threatening to put me in jail for stupid sh*t! Where and how is she staking you? Email block or change facebook block her (then you are not tracable/searchable) Intagram private and unfriend/block Cell block her number How did you see her picture of her and the boy? How did she see your joke?
Poppyolive Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 What stupid ****? Why threatening to put you in jail? Leave her alone and block her so she'll leave you alone.
Author Jordvn Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 (edited) i'm trying. i'm not paying any attention to her, but my friend sent me that link to warn me. i'm trying to distance myself. i made the mistake of the joke, now shes reacting to it. man, if i get married to someone else she'll find a way to ruin my life again. i've tried to cut her out, but she's the one stalking me & threatening to put me in jail for stupid sh*t! Where and how is she staking you? Email block or change facebook block her (then you are not tracable/searchable) Intagram private and unfriend/block Cell block her number How did you see her picture of her and the boy? How did she see your joke? first i posted the joke on my blog, that she reads everyday. then the same day, a fake ig account with all of her friends as the followers adds me, so she could see my private instagram account. i blocked her on every social media a long time ago. she posted the picture on her blog, after she threatened to send me to jail. she said if i broke a contract, delete my blog.... i don't remember signing a contract where it says i can't have social media! i'm leaving her alone, she has a restraining order on me... i have no choice!!!!! Edited May 7, 2014 by Jordvn
organizedchaos Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 first i posted the joke on my blog, that she reads everyday. then the same day, a fake ig account with all of her friends as the followers adds me, so she could see my private instagram account. i blocked her on every social media a long time ago. she posted the picture on her blog, after she threatened to send me to jail. she said if i broke a contract, delete my blog.... i don't remember signing a contract where it says i can't have social media! i'm leaving her alone, she has a restraining order on me... i have no choice!!!!! Why did you post a joke on your blog that you KNOW she reads??? You're asking for trouble and you got it. Congrats.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 Not to sound like a tool, but we told you to lay off. You didnt listen. To be hoenst, it will be your fault unless you knock it off. 1
Author Jordvn Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 Not to sound like a tool, but we told you to lay off. You didnt listen. To be hoenst, it will be your fault unless you knock it off. what, i'm not allowed to have a new girlfriend and get her pregnant after my ex dumps me? i didn't post the naughty pictures online like i wanted to...
Author Jordvn Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 We warned you in the last thread, you didn't listen. Continue and she will put you in jail. I also encourage you to go look at the divorce forum and the ex-wives who beat themselves up (or had a friend) and claimed their Ex-husband did and he served time (lost their jobs, their friends, lives, custody of their kids, etc) Go look at the ex-wives who called the police and reported threats, pulled a gun, etc. and he ended up serving time in jail. In fact, one the first things the guys tell you in the forum is to carry around a personal recorder when talking to the ex wife or in her company in case she flips out. The courts are going to side with her when it's your word against hers. Your entire future could be ruined further if you keep this up. You CANNOT win in a battle of crazy / police / games / drama / etc. and you would be STUPID to even try. man thats crazy. i'm doing nothing wrong but moving on with my life, and she has to do batsh*t things to take away my happiness....
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 man thats crazy. i'm doing nothing wrong but moving on with my life, and she has to do batsh*t things to take away my happiness.... So, are you getting it? Or no?? You seem to be having trouble getting the overwhelming message here...
Author Jordvn Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 So, are you getting it? Or no?? You seem to be having trouble getting the overwhelming message here... of course i got it, i didn't just play with fire, i soaked the matches in gasoline. i feel so much better & have closure. just hope she leaves me the f*ck alone forever!!!!
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 what, i'm not allowed to have a new girlfriend and get her pregnant after my ex dumps me? i didn't post the naughty pictures online like i wanted to... Considering it never happened and you were lying about it just to get a reaction.........
Zahara Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 of course i got it, i didn't just play with fire, i soaked the matches in gasoline. i feel so much better & have closure. just hope she leaves me the f*ck alone forever!!!! If you want her to leave you alone, you leave her alone -- and that means you EXCLUDE HER from anything you say and do AND you avoid saying and doing anything that may cause her to trigger or feel provoked. You step down and move on with you life. You were just served with an RO and that's messed up your life, and if that isn't a big slap in the face to cut the shytt and grow up, then I don't know what is. You're no different from her. Wanting to post naughty pics of the ex, now lying about getting a girl pregnant -- seems you're as batshytt crazy as her as in you'd go through all kinds of lengths to create drama. 3
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