Vero Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 There's this girl in my 1st and 2nd period that I never really paid much attention to. She doesn't talk to that many people, and she's kinda shy, but not TOO shy. She does like talking. We talk a bit when we get the chance to. She really sweet, but I don't know how to let her know I like her. She's doesn't seem like she's ever been in a relationship, soo don't know if she would see me as BF material, or as a friend like most of the people she knows. It's been a while since my last relationship and I've forgotten the rules of flirting and getting a GF. [please take into account that this is high school] Thanks!
jonsnuh Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 There's this girl in my 1st and 2nd period that I never really paid much attention to. She doesn't talk to that many people, and she's kinda shy, but not TOO shy. She does like talking. We talk a bit when we get the chance to. She really sweet, but I don't know how to let her know I like her. She's doesn't seem like she's ever been in a relationship, soo don't know if she would see me as BF material, or as a friend like most of the people she knows. It's been a while since my last relationship and I've forgotten the rules of flirting and getting a GF. [please take into account that this is high school] Thanks! Is this a genetic question or a generic question you're asking? This is far from the eugenics response I see prevalent on OLD.
Strength in Healing Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Yeah, I think you mean generic brother. LOL! It all comes down to confidence. You can approach her and say ANYTHING (with the exception of offensive things -- do NOT say offensive things, such as anything degrading) and you can work with it. For example, I watched a video of a guy in a fat suit approach beautiful women and pull them. My favorite line, simply, was when he went up to one and said "hi, I'm here to flirt with you." It was so hilarious, and worked. I can tell you I used confidence to get with my current relationship. That's all it really comes down to. Confidence. Not timidness, not shyness. Know what you want, and project it.
angel.eyes Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Flirting is like relearning to ride a bike. It will come back to you naturally, even if you're out of practice. Ask her to study with you for your next exam or something. Towards the end of your study session, ask her to join you for ice cream...flirt with her, then unless she reacts negatively to your flirtatiousness, let her know you like her. Unfortunately if she's shy, she's probably not going to give you many (any?) signals. Throw in inexperienced, and yes, you'll most likely be flying blind in terms of whether she might be interested until you declare your interest in her.
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