beach Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 It's difficult to teach another person empathy and/or compassion... Especially as an adult. I'm sad you seem resolved to live this life. It's never too late to begin living. Even if you stay - you could begin living - really living life- without her as a big part of your living and experiencing joy in daily life.
BeholdtheMan Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 But now I wish I had just divorced her right after Dday. You should've manned up and walked...instead you swallowed her sh*t sandwich. Let this be a lesson to those BS's who choose to stick around. Are you sure you won't regret it down the road?
Just a Guy Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 Hi Nightmare01, Sorry to read your story. I have always maintained that where we find ourselves at a particular point in time depends entirely on the choices/decisions that we made along the way prior to that time. In your case you chose to stay with your wife even though you knew of her infidelity for whatever reasons. Now so late in the day there is nothing that you can do about it unless you want to divorce her and start afresh. You say you are in your 60s' and cannot start over again. Well that too, is a decision/choice that you are making. As such I would say it is fruitless for you to vent over some thing that you your self are responsible for. I am not sure what it is that you want this forum to advise you about. At most people can only commiserate with you. You have a lonely path to tread and you will have to live with that fact. Wish you all the best.
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