stillafool Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Funny that they go out on dates with me. I have dated six women since divorcing and only one was over thirty. And now I'm sure the neighbors can hear my 23 year old sb screaming in the night. We're having the hottest sex I've ever had with anyone. One night recently I literally wowed her! I've recently relocated and have about a half dozen young women who are interested. Wow good for you! I imagine you must really wow your friends with this info. Note: most women who scream during sex are only doing it for your benefit, you know to boost your ego. (Women get together and laugh about it.) As far as getting sex from the young, older women can get laid by them as well (even the unattractive ones) because there's always a young man who wants sex and most older women would not have to help them pay their bills to get it. Not so much for older men.
Anela Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Four years ago I was at least ten years older and had one foot in the grave. I was literally at death's door. We can all change but you have to be wiling to make the effort. In my experience, most women my age are not willing to do this. At this point I am outperforming many men half my age at the gym. Make the effort for men who want someone younger? I want to make the effort for myself. My diet is mostly healthy, but I don't look so healthy right now, because I'm trying to fix a stomach issue. I've been regularly sick (having to run to a bathroom to throw up), for over four years now, so I wasn't sure about exercising when I was likely to be dehydrated, and unable to rehydrate (I was throwing up water, and still do at times). Lovely. I was worried enough about that, and how it would seem to anyone I went out with, let alone thinking that I was too old in the second half of my thirties, for f*ck's sake. But the men are never too old, correct? 1
Author TigerLilly78 Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 Dam this thread has kind of deteriorated into a pissing contest of the ages def not what I had in mind *sigh. I respect all ages I have my personal preference's when it comes to dating just like everyone else and those should be respected that goes for anyone bottom line no matter what age. 1
RedRobin Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I always look at the age requirements before sending a message. If I'm not in their age range I do not send a message under any circumstance. That is awesome. That is all I ask. Just some basic respect...
PinkInTheLimo Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Sorry to say but if you are being shallow regarding the external beauty of a guy you can't demand from a guy not to be shallow about the age of a woman. You want the handsome one, he wants the young(er) one. If his preference for the young(er) one is discrimination then so is your preference for the handsome one. Fair? Oh please... When I say ugly and handsome I mean ugly and handsome in my very subjective opinion. I've got to find a guy attractive. Finding someone attractive is not the same as finding someone young. The men who want at all costs a young woman are shallow because they are unable to see the attractiveness of a woman their age. Are you going to tell me that all the guys who have been married for 30 or more years find their wife unattractive? There some longtime couples out there who have a lot more fun and intimacy than the older guys chasing young women. 1
Iguanna Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Oh please... When I say ugly and handsome I mean ugly and handsome in my very subjective opinion. I've got to find a guy attractive. Finding someone attractive is not the same as finding someone young. The men who want at all costs a young woman are shallow because they are unable to see the attractiveness of a woman their age. Are you going to tell me that all the guys who have been married for 30 or more years find their wife unattractive? There some longtime couples out there who have a lot more fun and intimacy than the older guys chasing young women. If you think they are shallow why do you even care about them? Let them be shallow and you look for someone who is not shallow. That simple. There are things in life that suck and are unfair. Either we accept them and live our life the best way we can either we cry all day about the unfairness and are miserable. The sooner we realize we can't change the world but only ourselves, the sooner we'll feel good and happy. 1
RedRobin Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 This is what Social Media and Online Dating has done to many people here. For many of us who do not use Social Media and select a mate from a menu via Online Dating how exactly is that suppose to work? We all start carrying signs with our "Profiles", Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tinder, Snapchat, etc. on them? There are A LOT of men and women who stick with the traditional method of meeting someone who they eventually date (the one that worked just fine since Man and Women walked the face of the earth). You know where a guy or girl sees someone who they find attractive across the room and without knowing a damn thing about them (their "profile", their Facebook, who their friends are, what they ate for lunch, their exact age or age preference) walk up and introduce themselves. Many of you would benefit and be much happier if laid off Social Media and stopped Online Dating. Many of you, do not even know what normal is anymore, it's messed up your perspective, it's not natural, it's not the least bit romantic (how romantic can it be when the guy sent you and 100 women a message while he is taking a crap on the toilet) and jaded many of you. Get off the computer, forget "Profiles", get out in the world, do things / hobbies that you enjoy and make you happy, get involved in worthy causes and your community, etc. and you will meet all types of wonderful and amazing people who will become friends and people who you will date. It will make you a better person. Make you even more interesting. More well rounded More experiences to share with friends and people you date. Far more romantic. Plus, you make a difference in other peoples lives and your community / world. I have a very active life off line. I have met lots of amazing people. Yes. I've also learned a little something about being out and about in the public. There has to be a price of admission. AND, you have to have a very solid social network that effectively eliminates the cads and those up to no good. Since so many people seem to be ignoring their responsibilities in the social framework these days, the benefits of meeting people IRL have dropped immensely. 1
Shaun-Dro Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Well I broke down and activated and added a pic to a old on line dating site and sure enough first response was a guy 17 years my senior saying how gorgeous I am *sigh I knew it it always happens I KNEW IT..I don't have anything agenst older men. I just wish ones some what more near my own age were interested any other women have this issue with OLD? this seams to be all I get contacting me unless I initiate contact first.. How old are you? Also, so what if the older guys are going after the young dames? They're supposed to in case you didn't know that. We're hardwired to do just that so get used to it.
William Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 We have a specific member and topic here, and the member asks this question with regarding to online dating and older men contacting her: "I just wish ones some what more near my own age were interested any other women have this issue with OLD? this seams to be all I get contacting me unless I initiate contact first.." Responses to this member's issue are welcomed. There is a consolidated thread regarding age gap dating which more general responses can be directed to: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/288549-consolidated-discussion-older-younger-woman-man-age-gap-dating Thanks!
Author TigerLilly78 Posted April 27, 2014 Author Posted April 27, 2014 How old are you? Also, so what if the older guys are going after the young dames? They're supposed to in case you didn't know that. We're hardwired to do just that so get used to it. I'm 36 and I am use to ignoring them to me its disrespectful for them to not respect my choices that are clearly listed on the profile. So if they want to waist their time then so be it cause I wouldn't date any man that was as you say "hardwired" to disrespect me.. 1
MidwestUSA Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 (edited) Well I broke down and activated and added a pic to a old on line dating site and sure enough first response was a guy 17 years my senior saying how gorgeous I am *sigh I knew it it always happens I KNEW IT..I don't have anything agenst older men. I just wish ones some what more near my own age were interested any other women have this issue with OLD? this seams to be all I get contacting me unless I initiate contact first.. When I encountered this, I simply took it as a compliment and moved on. You're certainly not obligated to reply. It's a market and people are window shopping. I'm not sure why some here are getting up in arms about it. You're perfectly within your rights to contact whomever you see fit as well. That's the whole idea. Good luck! (Having said that, I met my bf, now husband, after I'd sworn off OLD). Edited April 27, 2014 by MidwestUSA Mortifying typo! 2
readynow Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 Online dating is difficult that way - people seem not to take preferences seriously. When I was OLD, I set my preferences to age 5 - 15 years older than myself and resides within London. Guess who was messaging me? Men younger than myself, different shapes and sizes, much younger. Even the daily matches from match were men younger! I even got messages from younger men outside the UK! I eventually had to set a contact filter to receive contact from only people in the specified age range and location. I guess that is what you might have to do OP. Set your preferences, add a line to your profile asking men older than your preferred age NOT to contact you. Aside that, I guess you just hit delete and move on.
serial muse Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 I'm happy that I found these boards, because of the friendships that developed for me, but I do wish that I hadn't seen so many posts on the dating board, about 35 being the age that women deteriorate. I found it just before my 35th birthday, and I was already dealing with someone screwing with my mind. I've spent part of the past four years, pushing away the idea that I should be in a nursing home, using a walker to get around, and that I was suddenly not attractive in any way. The constant insults and reminders are just dreadful. Oh, hugs...it's the people who start threads like that who've been "ruined by life". Bitterness is the only reason for it - it says more about the thread starter than anyone else.
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