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Eivuwan Established Member

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i guess thats your opinion im in a good happy relationship with lots of intense passionate sex with a lot of love. if thats weak then im weak.

 

Ok, OP you are very happy so what's the point of arguing with us? Go enjoy your sex and food.

hoping2heal Established Member

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I'm not trolling that's be a waste of my life and yours, but think what you want.

 

No, you are trolling.

 

No one comes here looking for advice and then adamantly disagrees with any opposition. In other words, you're saying you have a problem and need help and then continually saying there is no problem in the other breath. Sure, people ask for advice and don't take it all of the time. But, they still agree there's at least an initial problem. This is where you're doing it wrong :laugh:

 

So, I guess this has just been a waste of your time and ours :lmao:

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No, you are trolling.

 

No one comes here looking for advice and then adamantly disagrees with any opposition. In other words, you're saying you have a problem and need help and then continually saying there is no problem in the other breath. Sure, people ask for advice and don't take it all of the time. But, they still agree there's at least an initial problem. This is where you're doing it wrong :laugh:

 

So, I guess this has just been a waste of your time and ours :lmao:

 

The reason I disagree with most people is because they are only seeing the black and white side to this. Saying I'm overweight and I have health problems and my gf is controlling and I'm spineless. Nobody is actually trying to see other sides to the story. It's not as simple as she's dominant and I'm not. I want to see her happy. And I enjoy making her happy. And sex is fantastic. Nobody here as tried to suggest a balance of the two?

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The reason I disagree with most people is because they are only seeing the black and white side to this. Saying I'm overweight and I have health problems and my gf is controlling and I'm spineless. Nobody is actually trying to see other sides to the story. It's not as simple as she's dominant and I'm not. I want to see her happy. And I enjoy making her happy. And sex is fantastic. Nobody here as tried to suggest a balance of the two?

 

Can you not make her happy in other ways?

 

Anyone who gets off on making their partner fat has issues and as for you, if you're genuine, you can't see the wood for the trees.

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The reason I disagree with most people is because they are only seeing the black and white side to this. Saying I'm overweight and I have health problems and my gf is controlling and I'm spineless. Nobody is actually trying to see other sides to the story. It's not as simple as she's dominant and I'm not. I want to see her happy. And I enjoy making her happy. And sex is fantastic. Nobody here as tried to suggest a balance of the two?

 

Can you not make her happy in other ways?

 

Anyone who gets off on making their partner fat has issues and as for you, if you're genuine, you can't see the wood for the trees.

I don't care about being a bit chubby, if that makes her happy then that's fine.

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The reason I disagree with most people is because they are only seeing the black and white side to this. Saying I'm overweight and I have health problems and my gf is controlling and I'm spineless. Nobody is actually trying to see other sides to the story. It's not as simple as she's dominant and I'm not. I want to see her happy. And I enjoy making her happy. And sex is fantastic. Nobody here as tried to suggest a balance of the two?

 

So, then I guess my next question would be..so what's the problem?!

 

If you being overweight leads to better sex and a better relationship then what is it you're griping about? Or, is this like humble bragging? "Gosh, it's sooo hard having a husband who makes boat loads of cash and just tells me to go shopping all day. I don't even know which store to choose".

 

I mean, what is it you're looking for, in the event that you're being serious?

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martaldn Established Member

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as long as you are happy and your relationship is not suffering for that ( apparently is instead the opposite ) then there is not much of advise we can give you.

in a long run this is gonna ruin your health but you dont sound like you care much. so good luck

MidwestUSA Established Member

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It looks like you're working your way up to an appearance on My 650 lb Life!

 

We eagerly await your episode. :)

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Zahara Established Member

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Goodness, I read the whole thread.

 

I remember my doctor saying this when he was treating my ex-husband for his weight issues and the dangerous effects of belly fat -- much higher risk for diabetes, high blood pressure, stroke, etc.

 

You and your girlfriend are seriously misguided.

FitChick Established Member

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Do you have a lot of money and other assets? Is she the beneficiary on your life insurance policy? Has she suddenly bought a lot of rat poison? Has she applied for a concealed carry permit? Does she accidentally leave her shoes on the staircase in the middle of the night?

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It looks like you're working your way up to an appearance on My 650 lb Life!

 

We eagerly await your episode. :)

 

I think I'm quite awhile off that yet

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Do you have a lot of money and other assets? Is she the beneficiary on your life insurance policy? Has she suddenly bought a lot of rat poison? Has she applied for a concealed carry permit? Does she accidentally leave her shoes on the staircase in the middle of the night?

 

None of the above. She just liked fattening me up :)

BradJacobs Established Member

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None of the above. She just liked fattening me up :)

If she wanted you to start doing lines of blow would you?

 

When are you going to put your foot down?

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People have told you what they thought. What more do you want? You're looking for attention and clearly you like the way you look.

No need to post updated pictures to ask for new replies. Read your other posts in this thread. They stand. You also appear to have answered your own questions.

 

Nothing more to say.

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spiderowl Established Member

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You know, I think you like your weight. You like to draw attention to it and are proud that your girlfriend shares this liking too. I don't know about your girlfriend wanting to make you fat; I think you like it too, otherwise why bother seeking attention over it?

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People have told you what they thought. What more do you want? You're looking for attention and clearly you like the way you look.

No need to post updated pictures to ask for new replies. Read your other posts in this thread. They stand. You also appear to have answered your own questions.

 

Nothing more to say.

 

That's true but iv gained 80lbs in less than a year on purpose. Thought people might find reverse weight progress interesting

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You know, I think you like your weight. You like to draw attention to it and are proud that your girlfriend shares this liking too. I don't know about your girlfriend wanting to make you fat; I think you like it too, otherwise why bother seeking attention over it?

 

I guess her lusting for my fat has made me enjoy getting fatter yes.

spiderowl Established Member

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You two seem to share the same fetish.

scorpiogirl Established Member

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That's true but iv gained 80lbs in less than a year on purpose. Thought people might find reverse weight progress interesting

 

Not really

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CarrieT Established Member

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I don't care about being a bit chubby, if that makes her happy then that's fine.

 

What you are now is WAY beyond chubby... Have you done any reading about Type II Diabetes and other health issues that the weight gain is going to cause?

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That's true but iv gained 80lbs in less than a year on purpose. Thought people might find reverse weight progress interesting

 

Ive had to work hard to put on weight for numerous years, and would be happy to top out with 80 lbs total but not in one frikken year. I'd want the bulk of that gain to be in muscle. If a lot of my weight gain was going around my waste I wouldn't want it. This thread is so bizarre. Why the **** did your gf start going out with you to begin with if you were that far off her ideal. Lots of women love beefy, stocky, chubster, thick neck guys, but they flirt with them & date them. Its not like they are the elites and they have to take an avg/slim guy and make him a work in progress to get that ideal. I'm not a body nazi and some of my friends had/have builds like this, but to do this to please your gf is screwy and her motive is too.

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abby_tx Established Member

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So when you break up, you'll go back to your old weight and have saggy skin and stretch marks due to the rapid weight gain.

 

You should NEVER let a mate make you change...especially for the worse. That's like me running out and getting breast implants because a guy like big boobs. **** it. Be yourself and don't be what she wants you to be.

 

Sounds like this girl is a bit messed up in the head to be honest.

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Ive had to work hard to put on weight for numerous years, and would be happy to top out with 80 lbs total but not in one frikken year. I'd want the bulk of that gain to be in muscle. If a lot of my weight gain was going around my waste I wouldn't want it. This thread is so bizarre. Why the **** did your gf start going out with you to begin with if you were that far off her ideal. Lots of women love beefy, stocky, chubster, thick neck guys, but they flirt with them & date them. Its not like they are the elites and they have to take an avg/slim guy and make him a work in progress to get that ideal. I'm not a body nazi and some of my friends had/have builds like this, but to do this to please your gf is screwy and her motive is too.

 

I used to be chubby a few years back so maybe she saw the way I looked in old pictures and saw potential. I did ask why she didn't chose a fat guy and she said she prefers my face. And she enjoys the fattening up process.

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