Sasukie Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 Hey guys..so long story short..I haven't posted here about my own relationship in a while..since its nearing the end of april, that marks about 6 months since my breakup of a 1 year relationship and 4 months of full NC.. Recently (as in 2 days ago), I went out with a friend and her girlfriend and we chatted about life. Topics of relationships came up and somehow we came to talking about each of our own and our pasts..I told my story and basically it was about dating a girl who was not as successful in school and in most areas of life but I still had a lot of fun dating. I tried to help her get away from drinking and partying, but at the end of the relationship our paths were too different and I went on with life and she wanted to go back to that. Now...after telling my story to my friends..today I've been bothered, I can't say I miss her anymore. But I got the feeling, the same feeling when your heart is restless, and you are getting impatient and I'm wondering what it is that I'm feeling...She's also on my mind a little...though I don't have any emotional feelings for her anymore. Ah its a hassle..as I try to work. Just wanted to rant a little Anyone have any tips? I've been pretty good for 4 months..
maturityassets Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 It happens. I think the night before my friend who has been out of a relationship with his ex for over a year brought her up again and I had to bring up an ex of mine to show how it's possible to move on and such. Of course the next night I had dreams about my ex. With NC we are moving on but sometimes we are burying somethings we would like to say when trying to move on. so when the topic does get brought up all that is buried in NC comes out. It gets less intensive each time it happens so keep going
Author Sasukie Posted April 22, 2014 Author Posted April 22, 2014 Ah thanks maturityassets, I mean I've brought her up before but haven't felt like this in a while. Maybe in addition to this, its also the hours that I work, which is why I'm getting restless. Could it be that I'm longing/missing being in a relationship..?
Trovador Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 Well, it's like reading again a book, you realize the book wasn't so good as you thought the first time or it moves you in way you had forgotten, ha ha... nah, the latter rarely happens... In any case, the story, the setting, the characters start again to live in your mind for a while... you even dream with the story, as it happens whenever I reread Peter Straub's Ghost Story (but for the most part I tend to skim the book and it seems more boring than the last time, but I digress)... Nothing to worry here, pal, we are human and we remember... I think almost everyday about some of my exes if not all... they are part of my life although I am free of them... amen... 1
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