starla33 Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 If a guy the day after a first date texted "looking forward to next time".....but that was it. What would you do? Is this like a wait around situation or am I supposed to ask him out?
WhatASituation Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 I'd say give him a chance to let you know when the next date will be. He just may not know especially if it's just the beginning to a new week. 1
Author starla33 Posted April 21, 2014 Author Posted April 21, 2014 I'd say give him a chance to let you know when the next date will be. He just may not know especially if it's just the beginning to a new week. well our date was last week and it's already Sunday night....
mammasita Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 I'd say "just let me know when" to put the ball in his court to schedule something Oh and throw a smiley emoticon in there or something when you text..... 1
Art_Critic Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 Maybe he was having a hard time reading your interest and threw that out there to get you to bite so he could gauge your interest... If you are interested shoot him a text....
Author starla33 Posted April 21, 2014 Author Posted April 21, 2014 Maybe he was having a hard time reading your interest and threw that out there to get you to bite so he could gauge your interest... If you are interested shoot him a text.... I guess i shuold have said it was to a thank you for the date type of text from me
Author starla33 Posted April 21, 2014 Author Posted April 21, 2014 Maybe he was having a hard time reading your interest and threw that out there to get you to bite so he could gauge your interest... If you are interested shoot him a text.... been few days since then now so would feel a bit weird responding like that
WhatASituation Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 been few days since then now so would feel a bit weird responding like that Well how about just shoot him a "how are you doing" type of text? See how the convo goes from there. 1
contact1 Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 And this is why just sending text is horrible, look at how much investigation work is going into a text 3
LovelyDay Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 Well how about just shoot him a "how are you doing" type of text? See how the convo goes from there. Yeah this.
Author starla33 Posted April 21, 2014 Author Posted April 21, 2014 Yeah this. He's not much of a text chatter so I'm not sure this would lead anywhere
LovelyDay Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 Well I mean if he ignores you then you'll know he's not interested. If he's engaged in the conversation then ask him out.
Author starla33 Posted April 21, 2014 Author Posted April 21, 2014 Well I mean if he ignores you then you'll know he's not interested. If he's engaged in the conversation then ask him out. that means i imitated the convo twice though and wont be able to tell if hes really interested
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 I would do nothing. If you don't hear from him by the end of the week, move on. 1
LovelyDay Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 that means i imitated the convo twice though and wont be able to tell if hes really interested If he agrees to go out with you it means he's interested in you. Just say "Hey! How have you been?" and if he responds, do a little bit of back and forth and eventually lead to "Hey I was wondering...". 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 He's not much of a text chatter so I'm not sure this would lead anywhere Ok wait, so you don't want to text to him or call him or otherwise communicate with him first so I'm assuming you'd just like to wait for him to come to you? Guys have insecurities of their own, you know. Sitting on your hands is the fastest way to make him think you're not interested. I mean good lord, be proactive about your dating life sometimes.
Author starla33 Posted April 21, 2014 Author Posted April 21, 2014 Ok wait, so you don't want to text to him or call him or otherwise communicate with him first so I'm assuming you'd just like to wait for him to come to you? Guys have insecurities of their own, you know. Sitting on your hands is the fastest way to make him think you're not interested. I mean good lord, be proactive about your dating life sometimes. Yes but I texted and thanked him for the date and said would be great to do it again. I don't see how many more hints I can give
Chocolat Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 Yes but I texted and thanked him for the date and said would be great to do it again. I don't see how many more hints I can give Agreed. Ball is in his court. Meantime, you can play tennis with others. 2
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