bam_bam Posted April 17, 2014 Posted April 17, 2014 Okay i had a one night stand with this guy that was stayin at a friend house....the one night stand turn in to a every night thing now he has a girlfriend that he been with for like 10 years and I just got out of a 2 year relationship. ..... so things between me and lover boy got deep I find out I was pregnant by that time are little fling then ended love boy girl friend got outta jail we still kept in contact with one another so then that ended because he got locked up for a warrant so im writtin him an our bond grew closer so now I had the baby we started talking about being in a relationship because he droped the other girl so now its about that time for him to get out of jail so we still talking about are relationship and he wasnt gonna do crack cause that was in his past just like her so now he home and did awhole 360 on me he started using again and he went back to the girl now the girl that he been with has 2 daughters by him she done got the kids to be with him and just so he cant see my son they stay in atlanta mind you they dont gave nowhere to go they are homeless People keep telling me to hold on cause once he stop using he gonna leave her and be with me
thecrucible Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 I think you need to drop this guy. If he was into you, he'd be with you now. 1
mammasita Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 If he did a 360, he'd be right back where he started? 3
Author bam_bam Posted April 18, 2014 Author Posted April 18, 2014 I did find someone else but I just cant get over him I still have mixs feels about what happened
OhThatGirl Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 Listen. The last thing you need to do is worry about a homeless man who is using crack and has more kids than he can take care of. The ONLY thing you should concentrate on at this point is making sure the needs of you and your child are met. Do you have an education? Good job? Stable housing? The necessities of life for your child to be well taken care of? I have profound concern that you are so deep into the subculture of people that have children without means to care for them, prison sentences, warrants, drug use, and homelessness and yet this isn't your FIRST concern. Should you fight for this man? Hell. No. You should stay far far away from everything that man represents and do your best to make sure your son ends up in a position entirely naive to such things. To be blunt, stay away from men and work to be a productive member of society with your CHILDs needs first. Your son needs nothing that man can provide. Nothing. Nada. 1
Arieswoman Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 I really hope this is a troll post because I can't believe anyone would be so stupid and irresponsible. If not, I agree totally with OhThat girl, get your head out of whatever orifice you have it stuck in, step up to the plate and start being a proper responsible mother to that child you have - and that means not exposing him to drunks, drop-outs, jailbirds and crackheads.
Author bam_bam Posted April 18, 2014 Author Posted April 18, 2014 I have my own apartment working on get my house my son is my main prioritise in this whole thing I just need to here somebody else point of view of my problem but anyway iam mommy and daddy to my son
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