Should i hold on to a dying relationship?

[Joe_9400]

I have in a relationship with my gf for 10 months now. Last week we had a big fight and one thing led to another. After our big fight i went to my friend’s house to vent my frustration. I told my friend the my gf doesn’t deserve a guy like me, and i only said this because im angry at her, what i didn’t know is i pocket dialed my gf and she listened to our conversation. After i talked to my friend, i called my gf and she’s furious at me and doesn’t wanna talk to me anymore. After a few days i called her and asked her what’s the status of our relationship. She said she doesn’t know but i feel like she’s only dragging this relationship til’ it die. What should i do? Do i expect her to comeback or try to move on. Please help me. I don’t know what to do.

[CaliBabe]

Well how do you feel?

 

Was the relationship healthy and growing prior to this fight? Were you two growing into a potential marriage and was this just one of those fights? She could just be upset and need time to get over what was said. If this is the case, apologize to her as she has every right to feel upset about you speaking ill of your relationship to someone else.

 

However, ask yourself if prior to this fight was your relationship unhealthy, toxic and not going anywhere? If this is the case, do not wait for her to drag it out. End it yourself.

[Joe_9400]

I feel we can still make it work. But the problem is she seems not interested anymore. I did apologize to her sincerely. But she said she needed more time. It's been hard for me because i reall love her

[d0nnivain]

If you feel like you can still make it work, apologize. Trot out the classic cliché & show up with flowers, heart in your hand.

 

 

Explain that you were hurt & you are sorry she heard all that but you needed to vent. Then explain why you think your problems can be overcome.

 

 

If she refuses to hear you, then you know it's over.