x-Ronnie-x Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 So... theres this guy. (wow that explains a lot!) Well... I met him about a year ago, and over time we grew really close. We flirt, have lots of fun, and even have these awesome deep philosophical "life" discussions... I feel like I've grown to have this deep spiritual connection with him, and it feels pretty amazing... the thing is... we are both quite alike. Of course, we really complement each other in some ways ( me being the crazy imaginative person and him "grounding me"), and we're both the kind of people that helps others and supports them. But by being alike... sometimes when it gets quiet, I feel as if we're expecting/wanting the other person to say something, but... not really knowing what to say... and it feels really awkward at times (not the cute awkward, but bad awkward). ANYWAY. A week ago, we got together, got really close... and decided to start dating! Yay! Except that I don't know what the heck to do. What I mean is that... something feels off? As if before, I really wanted to, and now I'm unsure about my feelings towards him. How is dating someone supposed to feel like? (I know theres no specific "feeling", but... what does it normally feel like? ) Another problem is that we only see each other about once a week, and I don't know if thats a bod thing or not, but we message each other over facebook (since i don't have a cell). Oh ya, and we both tend to over think things. I guess what I'm just trying to ask is... How should the first few stages of being in a relationship feel? Is it normal to have these feelings of oncoming doom? That things won't work out? Ask me questions if you need me to clear it up, please XP
Author x-Ronnie-x Posted April 15, 2014 Author Posted April 15, 2014 I'm 16... I know thats a young age, but I'm not planning on anything becoming really serious anytime soon. I know him from school - we hung out a lot, bonded, and we got reallyclose. To the point of being able to talk about anything without it getting too awkward. Although recently he's graduated, and I still have school, so we don't have as much time to spend with each other... which means that each time we meet, it becomes much more "special" than just hanging out normally.
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