love_pink Posted April 14, 2014 Posted April 14, 2014 Funny story.. Last week I get a notification from my ex's best friend (that's a girl) that she's inviting me to her birthday party at a club on the 12th. I was quite shocked unsure if she was inviting me out of friendliness (we were never really close) or she just didn't know me and her bff had broken up in December. I already knew the ex was going to be there so I just laughed it off and ignored it. Saturday comes and I'm expecting pictures to be up on Facebook.. But there's nothing and I kind of sigh in relief! But last night!!! I was lying in bed, exhausted after work, I open instagram and what do I see? Pictures from Saturday night and the ex is in them!!!! As much as I didn't want to look at it, I couldn't help but stare at how different he looked. It really messed up my feelings considering I've been doing just fine since mid-January. It's like a punch to the gut to be honest. I felt quite sick to see him so happy and out with friends. Eventually I closed the picture and went to bed. And now unfortunately today I'm just miserable and really mad. Don't ask me why I'm mad because I honestly have no idea either. I can probably bet you $500 that he ended up talking sh*t about me as to why I wasn't there.. Hah. It's crazy how one picture can just change everything I guess. Just thought I'd share my tiny rant. Thanks for reading.
zen2475 Posted April 14, 2014 Posted April 14, 2014 Hugs. Of course that will trigger you! It's a crappy feeling, and all I can suggest is avoid things that will bring you reminders of him for a while. I think you were smart in not going to the party, and really, who care if he's trash talking you or not? If he is, that says more about him than it does you. 1
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