my GF is acting slightly off kilter, need insight and outside perspectives.

[RickyRene]

me and my girlfriend have always been a happy, loving couple despite being in a LDR. we skyped everyday,went to sleep together on skype sometimes,made each other pictures and poems. she is a very big nerd so we played video games together, read books to each other and so on. she has always been faithful,dedicated and thinks the world of me,we are friends with each others friends and both mine and her friends told me that "you can practically feel the love emanating off of her"

due to her Aspergers Syndrome we had difficulty talking out our feelings,fears,doubts and general problems but we have always managed to do so in a healthy manner, we have always had communication in our relationship.

until recent, she hit a 'rough patch'.

she is having some changes in medicine and her father was in the hospital for quite some time. she changed significantly in her behavior between then. i mean every aspect of our relationship decreased. but her father got well but she is still changing her meds around to find one that works for her. it's getting better but in a very different way. she is making more of a effort when it comes to interaction and doing sweet things for me and wanting them back than she did before things got rough for her, but her interest wanes randomly,going from very high to very low, and she seems less sincere, this escalates and deescalates too.

 

i was wondering your thoughts on this,forum.

do you think our relationship changed permanently?

do you think it's just her meds and how she is trying new ones?

any insight will be highly appreciated.

Edited April 10, 2014 by RickyRene

[SaltwaterHeart]

Don't you think you might be better off posting this on an Aspie Forum?

It'd be really hard for me to say anything helpful because I just don't know enough about aspie medications/behaviour patterns. Especially because I think Aspies can behave very differently from each other!

[TAV]

I can't help you with advice over the Asperger's thing either but can you tell us if you have a purely online relationship or that it has transferred to real life too? I also miss in your story what your goal is; when do you intend to be together permanently?

 

Despite the Asperger's your girlfriend might just be unsure of the (online) relationship and where it is going to go.