DeenaLovezu Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 I met this man. Well remet him... he was my cousins friend as a child. Anyway, we started talking.. we met up, at first I didn't like him because he was a bit.. different from what I usually go for. But I put that aside because he is nice, and sweet... Anyway, the second time we met, he kept hugging me.. he wouldn't let me pay for my food or drinks.. and he was just wonderful. He walked me home even though h was staying at the bar to play poker. The next time we met up, he was bad.. all over me, drunk.. it was uncomfortable. He was telling me he loves kids, that he was with a girl who hd kids and he went over just to chill with them.. I have two kids so he was trying to impress me. I was annoyed that he was all over me. He brought me home in a cab and then, I texted him that night saying I was uncomfortable and I wish he'd tone it down. He apologized and said he would but told me next time he's going to steal a kiss from me. We didn't really talk for almost a month, and the day after seeing him, he quit drinking, its probably not because of me.. That night I did tell him my dad was a drunk and i hated it. He texted me last week and said he was near my house and i told him to wait 5 minutes, I was walking home from the store with my mom. we hung out for a few, I walked him to the train and he purposely didn't get on it. I was cold, he held me.. he stares at me like he wants to kiss me. He then said, screw this, Im walking you home.. I'll wait for the next train it will get here just as I get back.. and took my bags and walked me home. After that, doesn't talk to me again.. I texted last night saying I wanted to see him and he said he'd be free today. He's sweet, flirts, he stares at me, sits next to me, puts his hand on my leg when sitting..not too close for comfort, just by my knee.. I'm over weight, when Is aid I gained weight, he looked at me and said "where".. then looked at my ass. I dont know what he wants from me! friendship.. a relationship.. what? I just came out of a horrible relatiobnship with a drunk who abused me. Is he trying to make me make the first moves? He's so wonderful I just am so confused.. Ive always been bad at this. He told me when he was drunk that he liked me. But I was hesitant..the last thing I want is a relationship with someone who drinks. But he quit.. and he's proud of himself. From the little I stated, does it seem that he does like me? He's always talking about my kids..how he loves kids, and doesn't mind girls with kids.. that he's a big kid too.. he works long hours a day, he's a good guy.. Im just so confused I plan on making some kind of move today but please just help figure out of thiose actions mean something so I dont make an ass of myself.
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