johndail Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 Me and my ex broke up almost a year ago just because we weren't getting along. We dated for about eight months. Since then a lot has changed with both of us. Last weekend we had a mutual friend in town and ended up hanging out with each other and friends friday and saturday night and had a good time. Then Sunday I ended up asking her if she wanted to go to a movie. We ended up going and afterwards we went out to eat. The entire time it wasn't awkward, we both had a blast. Ended up texting her after i got back home and told i had a good time and that I'm going to hold her to what she said about us going and seeing the new spiderman movie. She responded back and said that it was a lot of fun and that she is looking forward to going to the movie. Well here is my question...how do i go about this...mind you that the new spiderman movie doesn't come out for another month...i mean after writing it i see that i still have feelings lingering around for her. I just don't want to make anything awkward between us. I haven't talked to her since Sunday night and just really don't know what to say I guess. So do I bite the bullet and send a text or what
lauri Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 (edited) Me and my ex broke up almost a year ago just because we weren't getting along. We dated for about eight months. Since then a lot has changed with both of us. Last weekend we had a mutual friend in town and ended up hanging out with each other and friends friday and saturday night and had a good time. Then Sunday I ended up asking her if she wanted to go to a movie. We ended up going and afterwards we went out to eat. The entire time it wasn't awkward, we both had a blast. Ended up texting her after i got back home and told i had a good time and that I'm going to hold her to what she said about us going and seeing the new spiderman movie. She responded back and said that it was a lot of fun and that she is looking forward to going to the movie. Well here is my question...how do i go about this...mind you that the new spiderman movie doesn't come out for another month...i mean after writing it i see that i still have feelings lingering around for her. I just don't want to make anything awkward between us. I haven't talked to her since Sunday night and just really don't know what to say I guess. So do I bite the bullet and send a text or what How bad was your breakup between both of you? If I was you, I would precede very very cautiously. I think you are really sticking your neck out there already and she could be thinking of this as a "friend" thing. I would let it be for a while, don't text. Call her up in a few days and ask her out on a date, if she says she is "busy" without giving you a counter date then chances are she may not be interested...Just don't go running to her all googly eyed...try to re-build the attraction SLOWLY. Edited April 10, 2014 by lauri
Trovador Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 It seems you have been around her all this time, right? No NC at all... I honestly don't see a spark of interest in her.. she hanged out with you because of the mutual friend, I doubt she would have gone out with you of her own volition... A movie is a movie, not a date, you two are not dating, you are just doing what friends do all the time (regardless of gender)... maybe you are saving another guy the costs and time of taking her to the theatre... I don't see the need for you to expose yourself to a painful remainder that you two are broken up...
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