Break up

[skittlexx]

Hi everyone.

I'm actually not quite sure why I am writing this here. Maybe to vent or something, I don't know.

Basically, I just want to share my current situation.

Quite a while ago (December of last year) my boyfriend's father developed an issue with our relationship. He was under the illusion that being in a relationship would affect his son's grades in a bad way. At the time, it wasn't a big deal really. I have never met his father before, but he believed that I was being so detrimental to his son, that he felt the need to split us up. He told his son that he couldn't see me anymore and it pushed me off the edge. After about a week of negotiation, though, he allowed his son to see me once again. This lasted for just over a month, and me and my boyfriend (at the time) were very content with our relationship. However, in early February, his father decided that his son couldn't see me on the same basis as last time. This hurt me even more than the last time we split up for multiple reasons, including the fact that it was so close to Valentines day. I found this darkly ironic to say the least. Currently, me and my now-ex boyfriend still act like we are in a relationship. We still hug, call each-other cute names and say that we adore each-other (we no longer kiss though) but the fact that we act this way makes it harder for me to come to terms with the fact that it really is over, and it makes it incredibly hard to let him go. His dad has never met me, seen me, and he knows nothing of my character and what I am like. I speculated that my ex may have been lying about his dad and that he really just wanted rid of me, but it has become apparent that this isn't the case. I do still love him, and he has told me that he feels the same way, but keeping our relationship a secret (from his dad) seems to be out of the question. I really need some advice about what to do, as I am utterly perplexed as to what actions I need to make to fix this complication.

Much love,

Skittlesxx

[David87]

I'm guessing you're very young. There's not much you can do. If you were older and independent you could move somewhere just the two of you, but since this isn't the case, I suggest you stop seeing him so you can start the healing process.