nobodyknows13 Posted April 9, 2014 Posted April 9, 2014 I've been dating a girl for 3 years. She moved in with me while her parents got a divorce and everything was wonderful. Eventually her father got another woman pregnant and moved in a place right down the street from me. I live in my mothers house (she lives with her husband somewhere else). My mother let my recovering heroin addict brother move in and he brought with him a drug addict girlfriend. This took a turn for the worse and she moved in to her father's place. A few months ago she started working as a cocktail waitress which is like a step below a stripper at this place. She started not wanting to have sex as much and I started to think she was cheating so I started asking her if she was and looking through her texts etc. I got drunk a few weeks ago and we got into a fight. I told her to get out and she said it was over. I woke up the next day and felt terrible about what happened. I bought her flowers and met with her to talk about it. When I met up with her I seen that she was dead set on not being with me anymore. I poured my heart out to her and she didn't break up with me. She stayed with every night for a week after that. She got awarded an internship a few weeks ago for being a top student. The internship is 16 weeks and it's 3 hours away. The next Monday she asked me if she could go to the mob season opener with her friend to meet up with her other friends from work. There were a couple of guys from her work going to so I said no that I didn't want her to go because of how I was feeling like she had been cheating. The day of the game she called while I was in class and said she was going with her friend that has class in the morning so she would be home early. I said alright and I talked to her a couple of times and around 8 I tried to call and her phone was off. I started tripping out and stayed up all night. I drove to her house in the morning and she wasn't there. She finally called me around 10:30 and said she got drunk, knocked over a table, got kicked out of the bar, lost her friends, lost her glasses, lost her purse and passed out in a storage unit place for 2 hours. I was freaking out about it and tried to forget it but I grilled her again for her to tell me if she was cheating on me. She said no and she got upset and left. The next day she said she thinks we shouldn't be together and I started pouring my heart out again. She started crying and said she loves me but she can't do it anymore. She said she was confused and needed time to figure out if she wanted to be with me. She said she didn't want to talk to me for 2 weeks. It drove me nuts. I would think about it no stop until I tested her. She eventually said we could talk in a week. I tested her again 4 days in and said I couldn't take it anymore. She agreed to talk to me because she said she was missing me. We talked and I poured my heart out to her again but she didn't want to be in a relationship she said. She said she doesn't want to lose me though. She wants to focus on school and just doesn't want to date anyone. She said she wants to remain friends and not date anybody else. She wants to finish up school and try to give it another shot. We kept talking and she said she loves me and doesn't want to lose me but she said she doesn't want to have sex with me. She said she would probably slip up every once in a while but she said she was having trouble being sexual attracted to me. I agreed that I would remain friends with her and hang out and continue to talk to her. She acted like she didn't want me to change my Facebook status to single. We planned on going on vacation together and she still wants to do that. I'm not sure on whether I should just cut ties or continue down this path of being friends in the hopes of rekindling the relationship.
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