riokid180 Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Less than three weeks before she dumped me she: (1) wanted to start trying to have kids and I obliged (luckily she did not get pregnant (2) she was trying on wedding dresses with a friend and found one she liked (3) we had set a date for the wedding in August of this year. Was she out of the relationship already and just lying to herself to try and make it work?
STM206 Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Is there more to the story? Were there any red flags?
Author riokid180 Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 Is there more to the story? Were there any red flags? In December she met some married guy that her friend told her she should meet, and didn't tell me, but I found out anyway because he messaged her on facebook. I made a post about it back in December when it went down. She told me she was thinking of leaving me when I confronted her. So I pulled out all the stops and convinced her to stay. And she then said she was 100% sure she wanted to stay and get married and that we should try having kids right now. So that is what we did.
No Limit Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 As soon as anybody says that they're thinking of leaving (same counts for married folks, as soon as somebody mentions the word "divorce") things are going the wrong direction. Since she dumped you it's clear that she lied. Either that, or she's found another guy. That's the only explanation for the sudden change between building a future to burning it all down.
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