readynow Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Hello LS - especially those who have experienced being in long term relationships... What have you done with the photos of your exes? Those photos where you were doing lots of interesting stuff with them? When you met your new partner, what did you do with those photos? Did they mind your having them? If your partner still had lots of photos of their exes would you be worried?
iris219 Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Mine are in a box in the back of a closet. His are in a box in the attic. Neither of us care about the other having the photos. The photos represent a significant part of our lives, beyond our exes. The photos depict things we did, places we traveled, what we looked like throughout the years. It would be a shame to get rid of these. 1
d0nnivain Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 The pictures are in photo albums in the closet. I'm only enough to have actual pictures lol Sometimes I look through them maybe once every year or so. They are simply a part of my past. If I had Exs in the digital world, I'd probably make a folder & put them on a memory stick or in a cloud.
Cunning_Linguist Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 I burned them all and then pissed on the ashes.
Arieswoman Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Mine are all long gone. When I was dating I would be concerned if a guy had pictures of his ex about his house. It would suggest to me that he wasn't over her. The only exception I made would be for a guy who was a widower. I could understand why he would want to keep pictures of his wife.
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 I have photos of myself with exes still on my computer - they are memories that I don't feel any need to delete - that said, none of them have been opened/viewed in years. Same goes for my fiancé. I don't think there's any need for us to trash our memories, but it's also not like they're sitting out on the shelf in a nice frame.
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