livingnightmare Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 After starting to fancy a woman and having the feeling I'm deep in the friend zone confirmed I feel good about it. Ok so its not how I wanted things to go initially, but believing the last few days I was in the zone got rid of my crush which was more to do with needing validation I believe. To be honest I've been moaning to myself that I have no female friends and I'm realising I've just found one, I'm seeing this as a great opportunity to learn more about women, and not be as shy around them, maybe even make friends with her friends, who knows. She called me earlier and we had a good chat and I got the I'm her besty Lol and doesn't want to ruin a great friendship. I can say I think that's good of her to be honest about it. Has anyone else ever had this happen and they made a long term friend this way.
Mrin Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 My best friend is a woman - that I have never slept with. Never had a crush on her. Well yes but never any hope because it would not be a good idea. One of my other female friends is about 10 years younger and I had a total crush on. I confessed said crush and got denied. It was awk for about a week but now we are really great friends and she actually works for me now. We talk sex and women and guys all the time and there is no danger of us ever coming out of the friend zone. We had a two hour graphic discussion of the ins/outs of oral sex last week and tried some of my tips on her boyfriend. I think he was appreciative. 1
Author livingnightmare Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 Now I know where I stand I've been able to nip my crush in the bud, I think it was concentrating on what she thought what was got me thinking about her so much. I asked her to give me some tips to help smarten me up and look more attractive to the opposite sex, she agreed enthusiastically and is also going to teach me how to cook properly, seriously wouldn't want to ruin this new friendship, I actually feel more confident around women at the moment. Glad things turned out like this. 1
hasaquestion Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Now I know where I stand I've been able to nip my crush in the bud, I think it was concentrating on what she thought what was got me thinking about her so much. I asked her to give me some tips to help smarten me up and look more attractive to the opposite sex, she agreed enthusiastically and is also going to teach me how to cook properly, seriously wouldn't want to ruin this new friendship, I actually feel more confident around women at the moment. Glad things turned out like this. Bros before hoes. You went looking for the latter and found the former. Good work.
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