RedHawk08 Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 For anyone that may have been following my story over the last year. It give me absolutely no pleasure to announce, that my suspicions were correct. My wife left me for her boss. An email from an unrecognised address came in. Full of screenshots of my wife's emails. I have no idea who sent these still. They revealed all I had suspected from text book behaviour and little clues that were left from this time last year. Wrong or right, I blasted her for it all. Leaving me for someone who I always suspected and making the entire marriage breakdown to be my fault. As expected, her response was text book too. Cornered rat. I dropped her an FB messahe the following day. Calling her out on all the lies, and how I missed the girl of higher standards that she used to be. Also imformed her to keep an eye on the new man. As guys that ditch their girlfriends to pirsue married woman are untrustworthy scum at best. Also, that she could have the hassle and cost of divorce proceedings. As she has done nothing but behave like a junkie. Lying to me, both our families and friends. As expected, I was finally blocked. To my surprise I got a friendly-ish text the day after that. Saying that she would return my wedding ring next week. But leave it at my brother's house. Gutless to the end. I am truly past caring. I try not to be full of hatred and venom for what she's put me through. She's such a text book case for Affair Fog/GIGS/QLC or whatever it is. Absolute polar opposite to the woman she once was. I haven't even replied to her text regards the ring. I have no desire to speak to her. I will if she ever does the decent thing and apologises for what she has done. But she's lied to so many people I don't think she ever will. No wonder she maintained (and still does) that our relationship problems need to stay between us. I'm moving in a few months. Back to the country my family are from. I won't miss this toxic craphole, and the people who I grew up with and considered friends. Heres to a happy future!
aliveagain Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 You now know the truth, close the book on her, she is very poor wife material. She is no longer your problem, she's his problem. She will very likely do the same thing to him when someone with more toys comes along. Don't get caught up in her games, you have the truth and you don't need to protect her anymore. Maybe this email with proof is from his ex girlfriend. Move on friend, you dogged a bullet. 2
Author RedHawk08 Posted April 5, 2014 Author Posted April 5, 2014 Here is one great thing already I won't have to put up with anymore from friends I live near. Them talking to me like a f***ing self help book. If one more person says "Stay strong for you" I will go f***ing postal I swear!
aMguilts Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 ah redhawk really sorry for what you are going through haven`t caught up on your threads so far, but I feel for you but in retrospect, those that say `stay strong`, aren`t ALL that wrong..... it`s just the way you perceive It.... that is making you go a bit `loopy`! because that is EXACTLY what you need to do right now stay strong hard to be anything but that, I guess for now? keep posting you will get some great help here aM
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