emi Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 Hi guys My ex dumped me 7,8months ago. I admitted some part of the reason for the demise is my fault . We went NC. And around this week he has been sending me some msg like good morning, good night, go sleep and '' why u block me on fb'' and etc. Then today he sent me a song about something like '' Wishing he got a time machine so he can go back and we wouldnt have ever broken up'' kind of thing Serisouly, i was struggling for months, when i finally decided to drop that crap and move on, he turned up again, and he doesnt have the ball to say it in my face, but need to send me a song. Ghosh, some part of me want to give him a second chance, considering my fault in the relationship but i know he just finished his semester that means he got alot of freetime only then he think about me, if he gonna be busy again, things gonna mess up one more time. Can anyone give me input
Strength in Healing Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 Your assessment sounds accurate about once he gets busy again... It's best to understand you two broke up for a reason. There may not be anything wrong with either of you, per se, but you two did not click in the way you needed to. Something lacked, whether it be communication, or whether you just internalize, etc. there is many possibilities. The only reality is you two didn't work.
Author emi Posted April 5, 2014 Author Posted April 5, 2014 we broken up because of misunderstanding and communication issue, sum up its trust issue. I learned my lesson from the mistake i made. Its just confused me whether he really wanna try again, or just playing around
David87 Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 He has a lot of free time, that's why he sends you to text. If he was sincere he should have sent them earlier not now after 8 months. Don't break NC.
Author emi Posted April 5, 2014 Author Posted April 5, 2014 He has a lot of free time, that's why he sends you to text. If he was sincere he should have sent them earlier not now after 8 months. Don't break NC. ouch !
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