Emotions Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 My ex and I broke up awhile ago and have been no contact for 3 months. We don't follow each other on Instagram and I miss him so I decided to send him a private Instagram message. It let me know that he read it....also he had hit that he liked the picture I attached but had taken the "like" away from it......he never responded back though. I just want to know what he could be thinking. He didn't block me...and in order for him to see the private message he had to hit that he would accept messages from me. If he didn't want to see the message, he could have hit reject....I know he could have accidently hit the like button too. But why hasn't he responded? He also didn't delete my picture either.. Just curious as to what he's thinking (since I know he will never respond)
sooshi Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 We can't know what he's thinking. There are a ton of possibilities, and it could be any (number) of them. Only he can tell you. If he doesn't respond, it will be something you will have to let go. I know it's hard and that you miss him, but a lot of times, unfortunately, we don't get the closure we seek and must find it within ourselves. This may be one of those times.
forgetmenot75 Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 (edited) People do things and don't usually waste time thinking what they are doing. Why are you wasting your time? The guy just doesn't care enough to block you. The guy doesn't want to give you faux expectations liking your pic. The guy doesn't care enough to answer to your message. Do you need more explanations? Men are simple creatures. He's not in net rested in having contact with you for now. You should not be wasting your time thinking why is he acting the way he is. Edited April 2, 2014 by forgetmenot75
Zahara Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 This is the guy that sold the gifts you got him and used the money to buy a ring for a girl he proposed to? If yes...c'mon OP. What are you thinking with this? Good god. 1
Trovador Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 I remember an ex that used to send me emails, despite I had been clear about not wanting her to contact me... when I saw the headings (I rarely read them) I wondered why in hell she kept contacting me... what the f was she thinking? what was the part about breaking up that she didn't understand? It was annoying, and pathetic of course...
KaliLove Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 He's thinking the following: I'm hungry. Oh what's this? A random picture. Oops I accidentally accepted it. I'm still hungry. I'm also horny. Maybe I'll go watch porn, drink a beer, and eat a bucket of fried chicken..and not in that order. That's pretty much what most men are thinking most of the time.
redbaron005 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 This is the guy that sold the gifts you got him and used the money to buy a ring for a girl he proposed to? If yes...c'mon OP. What are you thinking with this? Good god. He did what!? If this is the guy, run. Run far far away darling and never look back.
Trovador Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Horny, hungry and high...There is a word never would fit there: Husband... Seriously, no PS3/Xbox? On topic: Hard as it is, one should accept the high possibility that the other party is thinking of someone who is not us, whatever this means...
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