tyler.george83 Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 (edited) I'm new to this but here my story I was with my ex for 9 months everything was good well I thought so,but she still ended up breaking up with me for no reason. We just good into a argument because she wasn't making time for me at my time of need, I recently experienced my grandmother Passing away in front of me I was alone no one to comfort me at the time it was my lossest time I wasn't myself I was stressed,depressed my whole being changed cuz of that. She came the next day and comforted me everything was ok till the funeral we argued we was back and forth the new year came ohhh forgot grandmother die in December.....yea as I was saying we argued alot but ibwas trying to get comfort from her but every time she was busy never had the time when I was down and wanted to talk then one day she broke up with me for no reason I still don't know why She told me she can't handle ans she needs a strong man because she's a strong woman and she like trendy men and I'm not trendy all that hurt me hearing her say that she wanted nothing to do with me. Some time we talked I ask if we could work it out she was hesitant but agreed but as friends that crushed me it's like she didn't want to walk nothing out me being like that it had alot of ups and downstill we had a big argument because I found out a nex man started to pick her up from work and we just broke up like 2 weeks now and plus her ex cam back in the picture ans she was telling me we just friends I didn't believe she texted me saying something hurtful we got into a big big fight she to me why should I be with someone who grandmother just died with hurt more and I'm stupid i have no ambition and I amount to nothing I replied saying she was the biggest mistake I ever made and my mistake was loving her after that she blocked my number deleted me from fb bbm and what's app I was devastated I tried everything to get to talk to her but she wanted nothing to do with me she acted like she doesn't care no more for me she says we are better strangers and to never talk to her ever again and she moved on to someone else I think I been seeing her liming we some dude but I don't know all I want to kno if it fair she did that to me I felt used like she never cared for me I told her the truth and she doesn't want to talk cause I said the truth if it wasn't I wouldn't of said it all I want to kno if she would ever realize and understand how hurt she left me Edited April 3, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
d0nnivain Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 She broke up with you for all sorts of reasons. She saw you as needy & this relationship wasn't working for her. Knowing "why" doesn't make it hurt less. Being dumped so soon after your grandmother's passing certain adds insult to injury but the fact remains she didn't think you two had a future I am sorry about your grandmother but you have to let this EX go & move on. 1
Strength in Healing Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Personally, I feel she may have broke up with you due to your inability to use periods and paragraphs. Yes? 2
somegoodman Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 It is always because she found someone else. It's called branch-swinging and every single woman does it and they will all deny it.
iDrumKing Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 It is always because she found someone else. It's called branch-swinging and every single woman does it and they will all deny it. I wouldn't say ALL. Women do it, but A LOT do. Take for example my ex. Together for 2 years and she already with someone after a month after the break up. You mean to tell me she connected that well with a guy in 1 month's time after the BU? Wrong. It happened while the relationship was going on. No point in dwelling on the WHYS. Concentrate of you. Seriously. When you take care of yourself, people will notice. Don't go out trying to find love, let it find you. The best relationships I've ever been in are the once that just naturally happen.
KaliLove Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 She broke up with you because she wanted to. Case closed. 1
Cunning_Linguist Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Break all contact. Meet more women. Work on your grammar and sentence structure. Sort out your style and your emotional neediness. Style is a variable that you can control so handle it and dress well. Women appreciate men who groom themselves and dress well, it's not the clothes per say, it's the idea behind it. From the way you write you sound very dependent on her for your happiness, needy. This is not an attractive thing. This is why you aren't "strong", because you can't handle your **** on your own and your happiness comes from without not within. I understand it's a tough time but it's no excuse to try and suck attention from her.
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Personally, I feel she may have broke up with you due to your inability to use periods and paragraphs. Yes? Thought I was reading a William Faulkner novel
David87 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Dude pull yourself together because you're all over the place. Please next time use paragraphs and shorter sentences. Anyway, she left, there's nothing you can do at this point. You're stressed out, chillax a little. I can tell by reading your post. Maybe she can handle stress. Who knows..... She left, now it's time to respect her wish and go NC. I think that she already found someone else. . . It's hard to hear this but that's the way it goes sometimes. BE A MAN, don't contact her again and never ever beg or plead.
iDrumKing Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Dude you posted this exact same thing a few hours ago.
Chi townD Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Your story is kinda similar to yours on how my Ex treated me and the things she said. Go, to the search button and look up Michael 93 thread titled something like, I can't believe what I have done. My story is in that thread. Read it. Should tell you everything you need to be doing.
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