rubberman Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 It's now1 month since my girlfriend dumped me. My ex girlfriend recently found out from a mutual friend, that I've slept with 2 different girls since the breakup. And what I've heard is that she is completely destroyed, after she found out about it. But i do not really care about it, we are no longer dating so what i do is not really her problem. Should I feel bad about it? I don't she was the one that dumped me, and now I'm moving on.
Toddbt12y1 Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Meh, her problem, not yours. She broke it off, you are moving on. 1
David87 Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 You owe her nothing. Don't feel bad. So how was it? Were they better than your ex, or what?
Author rubberman Posted April 1, 2014 Author Posted April 1, 2014 You owe her nothing. Don't feel bad. So how was it? Were they better than your ex, or what? I can't complain, it's not the same as having sex with the same person for a very long time. But i can't complain. We all have or needs . 1
mammasita Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Girls are so weird (self included LOL) She dumped you, why does she care?
JDPT Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 The relationship has reached it's final stop. You two are free to do as you please. I wouldn't set forth time orb energy towards feeling bad about something that you will naturally do in life.
Atticus9292012 Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 I divorced my ex-husband. It still hurt when I found out about him banging like four other women, but I expected that to happen. That is how he handled other breakups. Just because your actions upset someone doesn't mean you were wrong.
Omei Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 She prob expected him to beg and crawl and have his world hault, but you moved on instead and she's prob surprised, good for you.
tlegend Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 It's now1 month since my girlfriend dumped me. My ex girlfriend recently found out from a mutual friend, that I've slept with 2 different girls since the breakup. And what I've heard is that she is completely destroyed, after she found out about it. But i do not really care about it, we are no longer dating so what i do is not really her problem. Should I feel bad about it? I don't she was the one that dumped me, and now I'm moving on. Liberating feeling, isn't it? Moving on from someone who didn't feel you were important enough to keep, and now she's devastated you have been shacking up with a few randos? As much as I do not advocate revenge.....Revenge is still a dish best served cold. Good luck with moving on, do not feel prideful for hurting her feelings as that is opposite of who you are as far as morals and values I hope. Instead, pray she finds comfort in knowing she hopes the best for you.
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