jaguar Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 1. I need to be desired by other women 2. Not be desperate 3. Be flirty Even though I am a virgin. Now how is that possible seriously? How can I not be desperate? I am getting older and I still am like this. How can I just be cool and not think about anything? And if I acted cool, I might end up on the other side on the non sexual end(friend zone). Please help me understand how this is possible.
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 1. I need to be desired by other women 2. Not be desperate 3. Be flirty Even though I am a virgin. Now how is that possible seriously? How can I not be desperate? I am getting older and I still am like this. How can I just be cool and not think about anything? And if I acted cool, I might end up on the other side on the non sexual end(friend zone). Please help me understand how this is possible. To get a gf, you really only need #1 to be true.
slizl Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 We are all desparate to a certain degree...It's concealing the desparation and making it seem that you are completely the opposite that will get you a date.
GemmaUK Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 1. I need to be desired by other women 2. Not be desperate 3. Be flirty Even though I am a virgin. Now how is that possible seriously? How can I not be desperate? I am getting older and I still am like this. How can I just be cool and not think about anything? And if I acted cool, I might end up on the other side on the non sexual end(friend zone). Please help me understand how this is possible. I would also add always take pride in your appearance. I've read in various different articles that what a man wears is more important to a woman than what a woman wears is to a man apparently.
d0nnivain Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 You need to be happy in your own skin. What do you do that is interesting? What do you do that you are proud of? What do you have to offer another person in a relationship? Focus on those things & you should become more confident.
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