stephwill Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Last night he was out with his friends and i was home. He called me when he was finished hanging out with his friends but my phone was on silent and i was sleeping. I forgot that my phone was on silent before I had fallen asleep. He called em multiple times, but i didn't see his calls until i woke up the next morning. This morning I texted him saying that my phone was on silent, which he assumed, and that i was very sorry. So, earlier today i asked him what he was doing later on in the day and he didn't respond to my text then i called him and he didn't answer. so, i sent him a text about an hour later asking why he was ignoring me and he responded saying he's isn't ignoring me and he doesn't know what he's doing later. So then i texted back asking him to return my phone call since he isn't ignoring me. He didn't respond to that text or call me back. Last night around 1:00 am, he texted saying "is your phone still on silent?" after ignoring my phone call early in the afternoon. I responded by saying "grow up man." He called me last night, and we spoke and he basically doesn't believe why my phone was on silent. He has major trust issues and i know that. We've been dating for a little over 2 years now and I love him very much, and the feeling is mutual. I told him that these problems are not me and its him. that he has trust issues. We decided at the end of the call that its best for us to probably not continue dating but after the call i felt that i was acting off emotion and not thinking through my comments before saying them. I called him back later in the night, but he didn't' answer, so I wrote him a letter explaining that we have to work through his trust issues, well he has to, and I can't do little things like have my phone on silent knowing that he has these issues, and eventually they will fade. I let him know that if we're really in love with each other then we could work thru this. I left the letter on his car this morning, which is something we do with each other, explaining my feelings but i'm still hurting right now. I won't call him again and i'll see if he calls me after reading the letter. He's 26 years old and i'm 24. what to do in this situation?
soccerrprp Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 You need to get a grip on yourself. You are falling into co-dependency mode and it will define you if you don't see this for what it is. He is an ass and his insecurity will drive you down. Look at you. You've started ANOTHER post about this immature and you are acting clingy, insecure and lost. He is being a baby and I said that earlier and his latest response indicates that...and more. You cannot let this guy control you. He is now manipulating your emotions...is that the kind of guy you want to be with?
Gaeta Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 You did not like our answers in your 2 previous exact same threads? On March 1st he was ignoring you for not picking his call while you were at the garage. Aren't you used to being ignored by now? Your boyfriend is emotionally immature, controlling, manipulative, self-centered and abusive. Until they create a pill for that there is nothing you can. He will always be like this. You take it or you leave it.
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