bluegreen Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 What! Every time someone in the work environment flirts with someone (and its not smutty) or asks them out on a date or suggests hanging out after work, that recipient person should rush off to their boss or the HR dept and report that person....for sexual harrasment??? Dude this child will only stand up so much rejection before she BLOWS UP we are not speaking about rest of the mature normal intellectual working people. We are speaking on what even the poster called JAIL BAIT child. How did you missed that one
ascendotum Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 She's 17. She cant have a beer, but she can get tried as an adult in court and she could go to university (which is not for kiddies) or drive a car. She's a teenager, and just because someone is 17 it doesn't mean they arehave childish thoughts or emotionally screwed up because of hormones or very immature in their behavior. Some are but not everyone. Its possible for any women to make up lies about rape or claim they have been sexually harassed if they are prepared to stand up to the questioning. It could be totally legal to have her as a gf & have sex in his state. Jailbait is a term for someone young but we don't know if he's using in the strict legal sense here. If the OP is serious about not going out with her he should not have given out his number to begin with.
bluegreen Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 And once again we are not talking about some we are talking about one that is
whichwayisup Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 first off i'm not into this! this girl is an assistant where i work at. she keeps asking me a million questions all day. she gets pretty personal too. she keeps asking about me and my ex girlfriend, and tells me how hot i am. i just stay friendly and try not to act annoyed. she asks me how old i am, i told her i'm 26. i asked her how old she was, and she only said i'll be 18 next year. i'm a decade older than her basically. then she asked me for my number so we can go out sometime. i thought about giving her a fake number but i have to see her all the time so i reluctantly gave it to her. i feel like a creep, i don't want to go out with her. i can only think of so many excuses when she asks me. what should i do? You are 26 years old and can't say no? Just tell her thanks but you're not interested in dating her. Why give her your number when you have no desire to go out with her!
whichwayisup Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 i should. its just that awkward feeling when i have to see her all the time. its uneasy, and i feel guilty. Why do you feel guilty for not being interested in her? At 26, you need to OWN your decisions and stick to them, otherwise you'll be looking for approval and doing things that you don't want to do for others and you'll be the one disappointed and pissed off (at yourself). You have every right to say NO to her or anybody who asks you out and you're not interested. You may look like a teen but you don't have to act like one. Sorry to be harsh but you're sending her mixed messages and when guys do that to girls, it only causes more problems that could have been avoided ALL along (if you just had told her no).
LifePilgrim Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 In all honesty I was 26 when I dated my then-17-year-old wife. We got married very shortly after she turned 18. It's over eight years later and we are happier than ever. We never had relations, though, until after we were married. So the whole jail bate thing was a complete non-issue for us.
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