cmack90 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 [FONT=Calibri][FONT=Times New Roman]We currently live in the same town and attend the same university. [/FONT]We had our first date on Tuesday night after I got off of work. We kissed on our first date. It was the most interesting first date I have ever been on for a couple of reasons. First off my truck battery actually died and I had to have a buddy come and jump me off after dinner. Secondly, we got pretty intimate. This was approximately 10:30 pm. After my buddy jumped my truck, we found ourselves all alone in the restaurant parking lot. She then asked me how I “Wanted to end the night?” I moved in for the kiss and it was a success. Felt like such a boss. I then added a kiss on her forehead after a long intimate kiss and she told me that I “was the perfect height”. We then left the restaurant and I text her and told her to please let me know that she got home safely. She text me about 15 mins later and said “Home safely! Thanks again for the [/FONT][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]nightJ[/FONT][FONT=Calibri]” First off is she genuinely into me? Or does she think I’m an idiot for my truck battery dying?[/FONT][FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT][sIZE=2] [/sIZE] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]Secondly, when should I call her to schedule a second date? I don’t like calling girls after a first date for at least a couple of days because I don’t want to make them feel smothered. The problem is that today is Friday. Calling girls on Friday and Saturday looks desperate, right? [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]So in short, I am shooting for Sunday night (which will be five days). I want to keep the coals hot. I figured anywhere from 2-5 days is appropriate. Is this too long?[/FONT][/sIZE]
MidwestUSA Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 As soon as possible. The ideal time to ask would have been at, or near the end of, the first date. It's Friday; you may be too late for anything this weekend, but call her and ask. She's probably wondering why you haven't.
starrynightz45 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 (edited) Just stop with these games. Seriously. The right person is not keeping a log of how many hours you waited to call. 5 days? I'd be upset and assume you weren't interested. If you did contact me at that point, I'd feel like your other 4 options didn't pan out and I wouldn't really be up for much. If you like her, you call her the next day. It's not that complicated. Make your intentions clear and do it early. A girl who really liked you WOULD NOT feel smothered by your call the next day, or the day after that. It's a fact. Let it sink in. ONLY a girl who was already feeling "iffy" about you would have that reaction. 100% of the time. Edited March 28, 2014 by starrynightz45
MidwestUSA Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Just stop with these games. Seriously. The right person is not keeping a log of how many hours you waited to call. 5 days? I'd be upset and assume you weren't interested. If you did contact me at that point, I'd feel like your other 4 options didn't pan out and I wouldn't really be up for much. If you like her, you call her the next day. It's not that complicated. Make your intentions clear and do it early. A girl who really liked you WOULD NOT feel smothered by your call the next day, or the day after that. It's a fact. Let it sink in. ONLY a girl who was already feeling "iffy" about you would have that reaction. 100% of the time. Better said than me. OP, be sure to offer up your Friday and Saturday nights in the future. Some women view Sundays as lame, and would assume you had spent the prime of the weekend with your other option(s).
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