tjhunt37 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Ok, so I met this girl on a night out through a friend of mine, anyway we hit it off really well, she took down my number, that night we went back to hers but we were both too drunk to do anything so we passed out lying in eachothers arms and was pretty much holding her for the night, etc, I texted her the day after wanting to ask her out on a date, she had told me she recently broke up with her ex boyfriend a few months ago and "is in the mind frame that all guys are evil lol" but she said she wanted to hang out and get to know me without any pressure of a date scene, so I'm guessing she had a rough break up and wants to take things slowly.. I'll be seeing her this sunday to "Hang out" with her, I was wondering how could I turn her into a friends with benefits? Would it be a good idea since she's not really to sure right now? I know theres some attraction as I was holding her that night and was like holding her belly as well, (sought of spooning haha) but yeah, I was wondering if its a good idea to bring up that suggestion without it being creepy to her?
Sweetnothing Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Be an emotionally unavailable d*ck. don't take her on dates. Invite her over for sex but don't let her spend the night. Have an arsenal of weak excuses for why you never text her. Laugh it off and change the subject when she talks about being exclusive or give a bs excuse like "I'm not ready yet" or "I'm just soooo busy". When she texts you, you're always "asleep" or "busy". You don't want to go out anywhere with her because you're "too tired" but she can "come over and watch a movie" 3
David87 Posted March 28, 2014 Posted March 28, 2014 Be an emotionally unavailable d*ck. don't take her on dates. Invite her over for sex but don't let her spend the night. Have an arsenal of weak excuses for why you never text her. Laugh it off and change the subject when she talks about being exclusive or give a bs excuse like "I'm not ready yet" or "I'm just soooo busy". When she texts you, you're always "asleep" or "busy". You don't want to go out anywhere with her because you're "too tired" but she can "come over and watch a movie" This is hilarious ))) OP this will be your 3'rd tread on the subject She doesn't want a relationship with you and she doesn't want to have sex with you either. Just leave her alone.
jay1983 Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 What sweetnothing told you. But why? If everything is as you described, you can easily make GF out of her. "I just got out of a bad relationship, I'm......." If I had a nickel for every time a girl told me that, I'd have a full mortgage payment with taxes. They say stuff like that, it doesn't make any difference.
Strength in Healing Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 How about you find a girl who is emotionally available instead of asking us how to manipulate a girl into sexual interaction who ALREADY has a perception that guys are evil. Use your head kid
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