The most romantic story ever. But what waits us in the future. Need :)))

[Ion_tixii]

I never thought that something like this will happen to me. It was really like a movie. We met in August during my holidays on magic island in Indian Ocean. We saw each other on the beach from the very first moment. Now he tells that it was love from the first sight. in two days we had amazing sex (after 2 years of no having from my side). He had to leave next day but he stayed. And we had the most beautiful date in my life. Then he leaved. Considering the fact that I am from Eastern Europe and he is from Australia I never even was thinking that we will meet again.I was even pretty sure that he will never write me so even was not checking my mail. But in a few days when i checked email I saw that he wrote me straight away telling that he is still in love (we were telling everyone that we r on honeymoon) and cant get me out of his head. So our very sexy and romantic conversation started fist via email than on FB.

In one month after our meeting I asked him if he will b happy to see me on weekend in Australia ( I am working in airlines (not cabin attendant) so flying a lot and very cheap ) and he was very happy. So in two weeks I arrived and we spent amazing weekend together having fun, drinking, clubbing, walking, I even was on his work barbecue. So we decided to spent our winter holidays together on Bali.

And again ti was words of love and everything. 4 month of waiting was really hard for me as for women...and I was so in love.

So on February we spent 10 days together (his birthday and st. valentines day) first with his friend then alone. It was amazing. Like a dream. We were full of love, telling this to each other non stop and feeling it. But there was one thing that he told me: he told me that if I were in Australia we would definitely be together...but as now there is no future we can be together even though he was never so in love and etc....it was really painful. Because I never was so happy. But when we were saying good buy to each other I thought we will stop communicating. But this did not happen!! Our relationships got more deep and all the time he is telling me how he loves me and misses me. And he is coming in June for one month.

This everything looks like a magic. But I am worried so much. He is working hard and for past two weeks was not so patient and not telling me often that he loves me. I know I am thinking too much but I am afraid. If he wants to break up with me stop communicating I need to know, but I don't want to sound needy, especially his work is crazy ( I know it, saw it with my own eyes). I am worried most of the time. What should I do. I want to be realistic. But maybe I see everything in pink color??? But our story is so magical and unreal. He loves me but does not considers us being together. However, he never does anything to make me jealous and always tells me that I don't have to worry.But during the 7 month we met 3 times and now he is coming for one month. What should I do? Should I ask him were we standing and what future we have???

Edited March 27, 2014 by Ion_tixii

[TAV]

Yes, I think he needs to give you some commitment. His behaviour is that of a LDR boyfriend and his words contradict that. LDR's are hard and maybe he has trouble getting his head around that. Of course there are never any guarantees that you are going to last but at least you both know where you stand if your both commit to trying to make it work.

Is there any chance of you moving to Oz to be with him? You need to have a goal, maybe that is what he is asking of you.

[Ion_tixii]

Exactly, this contradiction is making me so insecure. I know that even not LDR relationships are hard. And I am not a little girl. In two month he is coming hopefully and one month of being together of course will be very important for us to understand. And I don't want to be pushy and needy. How should I ask him about our status without being pushy...I have no idea

 

regarding moving to OZ, I am ready. If i had possibility to move by my own I would do this to be with him together. But it is very difficult. the only possibility if he decides and sent me fiance or de facto relationships invitation that I could continue working. BUT HE HAS TO TELL ME, no????? And he knows that I am not against of moving into other country for work. So he knows that I dont have obstacle in this way.

[TAV]

Yes, he definitely has to ask you to come to Oz, but the fact that you feel ready and are willing to do that is a big step already. Maybe he is worried he would have to live in Eastern Europe? Best to try bringing these kinds of things out in the open.

I understand you do not want to come off needy but surely it is inevitable when you are together all this time soon that the future comes up? Or expectations at least?

I understand you feel insecure and maybe impatient (I so understand the last! ) but you have a lot going for you; the cheap travelling and his willingness to meet and be together as much as you can. It looks promising, trust me.