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How to deal with an infatuation ??

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I know there have been threads on this very topic and I've read most of them. I have an infatuation going on with my teacher and I seriously don't know how to deal with this. I feel ridiculous and very immature. :o

 

A little info: I'm in my early 20's and my teacher is in his early 30's. Big age difference, he's married, I'm in a relationship, I totally know and understand this would never work (not to mention I feel like a jerk for even having these feelings) but for some reason I can't get myself to STOP thinking about him. It's such an intense feeling that I've started rethinking my life and in my relationship even. I seriously feel like a little girl in elementary. I'm embarrassed for myself and embarrassed to post this! I've read places that this feeling will eventually go away… I hope so, kind of. :love:

 

Does anyone have any suggestions/comments/ideas on how I can retrain my brain to stop this? Has anyone else had an inappropriate crush to this degree?

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Can't help, but I feel ya. I have it bad bad bad for a married guy. For 6 months now. I've been in tears several times because I can not get him out of my mind and it sucks to feel so much for somebody you can't have. Why does he have to be so damn sexy(personality)?

No contact would probably be helpful. I'm trying to distract myself with others.

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Can't help, but I feel ya. I have it bad bad bad for a married guy. For 6 months now. I've been in tears several times because I can not get him out of my mind and it sucks to feel so much for somebody you can't have. Why does he have to be so damn sexy(personality)?

No contact would probably be helpful. I'm trying to distract myself with others.

 

I know exactly how you feel. I never thought I'd be in this boat. The person I've been stuck on has a very attractive personality and is someone I will need to be around for the next couple months so I'm trying to figure out ways to deal with it in a healthy manner. :) Good luck to you!

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