LonelyHero Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Hi there, so there is this girl i met on saturday... We have some common friends and we were on a party so i found the opportunity to meet her. When i asked how she was doing she told me that she broke up with bf and she was not okay. So i suggested to dance , and we did dance for like 3 hours... She told me that she had the most wonderful time in this place and i suggested to do it again sometime. I asked for phone,facebook, or whatever and she added me on facebook the next day. I asked our mutual female friend what's up with her and she told me that she breaks up all the time with her bf and they always are back toghether. I like her so much and today we are going to another party with friends (not alone). I don't know if she really broke up this time or whatever... The last times i fell for something like this i would give time to it and i would end up heartbroken and disappointed. What should i do??
TylerDurdenn Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 She's craving attention that she's not getting from her boyfriend. She is using you. 1
preraph Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 I would just keep your emotions in check. It's find to ask her out some more, but don't get carried away in case she does just get back with the guy. By the way, your mutual friend isn't HER true friend or she wouldn't be talking behind her back like that in that way, so not sure I'd take her word as gospel either. Just proceed with caution. So what if it turns out you only have a couple of really fun dates?
smackie9 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 She's got BF baggage she can't seem to shake. She even said she's not in a very good place. I agree she is just enjoying her time with you BUT there is no prospect for a relationship with this one. You should know not to mess with chicks like this, you don't need us to tell you that. Even your friends are telling you she's gonna be a problem so listen to them. You are foolish to even consider investing your feelings in this girl.
Author LonelyHero Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 I would just keep your emotions in check. It's find to ask her out some more, but don't get carried away in case she does just get back with the guy. By the way, your mutual friend isn't HER true friend or she wouldn't be talking behind her back like that in that way, so not sure I'd take her word as gospel either. Just proceed with caution. So what if it turns out you only have a couple of really fun dates? Just to mention it , we do not date each other. I didn't ask her out, just i know she will be there with us tonight from our friend. Maybe i could just ask what's up with her guy and then tell her that i like her/ask her out or i don't know.
Sweetnothing Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Forget this chick. Anyone in an on/off relationship isn't mentally stable. Emotionally healthy people (for the most part) will break up once MAYBE twice after giving it a second shot, but anyone who lets their SO jerk them around has low self esteem. She breaks up with this dude because she's not getting her needs met, then I'm guessing realizes she misses the attention and we're back to square one. She'll probably do the same thing to you
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