truffelo Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 So half a year ago i met this girl there was an immediate connection/attraction from both sides but nothing happened 2 months ago there was more and more contact and we started seeing each other a lot. She said things like i made her happy all the time, she never met anyone interesting like me... So one day she started talking about "us" and said it was obvious something more than friends and i told her i really liked her. She said she liked me too but she was to scared for a relationship. She didn't want to lose herself and was already been too disappointed in love... But few days later we ended up having sex and sleeping together, she stayed the whole weekend, it was fantastic. So Ok we decided too see, but she didn't want me to expect to have a full relationship directly (what i think is normal off course). a few weeks later she said again that she really really likes me a lot but that she was so afraid and she didn't want to lose me and that she thought i was "out of her league" (wtf????, she's like the prettiest /intelligent, funny/talented girl i know). She also said that she never just slept with a guy without liking him a lot and that she never let someone come so fast so close to her and she never liked to be so close with someone... but after that she started to act really distant. She always cancels our dates or never has time. Last month i've only seen her 2. The conversations on fb are also more distant, ( but i see she's really following my page etc). Yesterday i told her i missed her but she had a very strange reaction and when I told her i didn't understand what was happening, she didn't react anymore at all. I'm pretty sure she doesn't have another guy. But i really don't know what i should do
David87 Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 (edited) She doesn't considers you boyfriend material. She needed sex, she got it and left. I don't think there's anything you can do at this point to bring her back. She's not ready for a relationship ( with you ), she ''thought'' you're out of her league( that's brutal to hear) and last but not least she's starting to fade out. Those are 3 clear signs that she doesn't want you as a bf. Edited March 26, 2014 by David87 1
Author truffelo Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 ok, sorry for my english she didn't said i was out of her league but the opposite that's what i thougt is strange she felt like i was too good for her...
Gaeta Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 ok, sorry for my english she didn't said i was out of her league but the opposite that's what i thougt is strange she felt like i was too good for her... Same thing Truffelo, it's just another excuse among her other excuses. You have to let her go and search for someone that is ready to invest herself in a relationship. 1
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