johnww92 Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 Ok this is happening to two people I know and would like your opinions on the situation. I'll try keep this nice and short. I'll use fake names to describe the story easier. So David and Sandra dated for over 2 years and became very close and the dude ended up cheating on Sandra while he was drunk away in college and she stayed with him until he did it the 3rd time which she dumped him for good. She then ended up getting a new boyfriend and things went great but she broke up with him because she wasn't over her ex. So three months after the first breakup David gets a girlfriend but then Sandra decides to take him back for unknown reason probably because she thinks hes changed. David then ends it with the other girl and gets back with Sandra to try work things out. So do you guys think will happen?Will this work out or is there no hope for them? Keep in mind David is away in college so he only sees her at the weekends.
Shooter Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 And who are you in this scenario? Will the relationship last? Yes. If they have the willpower anything is possible. Will it be a good relationship? I doubt it. David sounds like a cheater. Sandra sounds like she might be gullible and emotionally weak. Actually they both sound pretty emotionally weak. So they will probably break up or sandra will be driven crazy by insecurities and paranoia about david cheating. Nobody can really tell you what will happen in this relationship. No two people are the same. I have met people who would be able to handle a situation like this with no problem and be happy and adjusted. I know others who would go crazy over this arrangement and any remnants of love between the two would be destroyed. Just gotta wait and see how things play out. If you are really david/sandra I suggest you call it quits now. Doesn't sound like you love each other as much as you think you love each other. If you are David/Sandras rebound then just move on lol. They obviously didn't like you that much/
FrostBlaze Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 I believe in getting back toghether when the reason for breaking up was missunderstandings, or the other partner needed to put his **** toghether, minor stuff. I don't believe in making up with someone that has cheated, because i am pretty sure they always will. And the fact that cheating is a sign of disrispect, allowing him to get back, weak move . If the guy has no respect for her, what do you expect? I say nothing good comes out of it. 1
Arieswoman Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 IMO "being drunk" is no excuse for cheating. No-one poured booze down David's throat, he made that choice himself. I wonder what excuse he'll use for cheating next time? If he can louse up a 2 year relationship so easily it doesn't say much about his sticking-power. Having said that, it seems that Sandra only wants to get back with David because she's jealous of him getting someome else. So, IMO, Sandra is either jealous and manipulative or an idiot. Sorry, but I can't see this going anywhere.
Author johnww92 Posted March 24, 2014 Author Posted March 24, 2014 And who are you in this scenario? Will the relationship last? Yes. If they have the willpower anything is possible. Will it be a good relationship? I doubt it. David sounds like a cheater. Sandra sounds like she might be gullible and emotionally weak. Actually they both sound pretty emotionally weak. So they will probably break up or sandra will be driven crazy by insecurities and paranoia about david cheating. Nobody can really tell you what will happen in this relationship. No two people are the same. I have met people who would be able to handle a situation like this with no problem and be happy and adjusted. I know others who would go crazy over this arrangement and any remnants of love between the two would be destroyed. Just gotta wait and see how things play out. If you are really david/sandra I suggest you call it quits now. Doesn't sound like you love each other as much as you think you love each other. If you are David/Sandras rebound then just move on lol. They obviously didn't like you that much/ I'm Sandras cousin
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