ExpatInItaly Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 You're entitled to your thought, so no offence taken, but no definitely not. This is the sole purpose. She has said she will also continue to wear her 'promise ring' every single day and was destroyed i didn't wear mine. I'm getting the vibe that you feel the reasoning isn't worthy enough? Cause that's how i feel about it also Yes, I think there could be more to this. I have no doubt it's a driving force but I can't help but wonder if she's just not all that invested anymore anyway, but scared to be alone. If she wants to explore greener grass, per se. I could be way off, but she seems uninterested in putting any effort into saving it.
Author toungeofcolicab Posted March 26, 2014 Author Posted March 26, 2014 If there's one thing she doesn't do, it's she doesn't lie. I asked her if she had lost any feelings towards me at all and if she did or had developed a crush on someone else, i would understand more so, and she said no, that she is just more in love with me than ever. So I'm really confused right now, as to why she didn't want to fight for it. She has said her relationship with her parents is very important to her as she didn't have a lot of friends growing up, and she doesn't ever want to disappoint them. I in turn said how it's a part of life, you have to to disappoint your parents at some stage and how you can't choose who you love or your path in life. She was even mentioning yesterday how she wanted to marry me, and everything like that, so I'm crushed by it and still don't know how to react.
Author toungeofcolicab Posted March 27, 2014 Author Posted March 27, 2014 Day one without having her as my girlfriend and I'm struggling big time. She keeps sending me texts as well and it just kills me. Says she wants to cut me out of her life entirely, and doesn't want to be friends either cause she can't do it. Just a curious question, how do you think she will react? She doesn't have barely any friends at all, and she always relied on us going out on the weekends. We always went home together from uni/work, and spent as much time as we could. She is very sensitive and a big softie underneath it all like me. What do you guys think? Girls please have some input, as you would know best
Author toungeofcolicab Posted March 29, 2014 Author Posted March 29, 2014 So i tried to do NC, but she contacted me, texted me. Said she misses me more than anything, misses having fun with me, going out, and everything. Asked me if I've been thinking about her, and stuff like that Im just confused, i really am. She asked if my friends think we will get back together, and i said every single one, but she said we won't and started crying about it. I just want to tell her the heart wants what it wants, decide
Author toungeofcolicab Posted March 29, 2014 Author Posted March 29, 2014 So last night, a few of my friends said lets go out to the city, and get a few drinks, so we can cheer you up. As we were crossing the road in the CBD, she was at the set of traffic lights in the car where i was crossing the road. It was trippy. She waved, and me and my friends waved back 30 mins later, she texts me, asking me, do i want to see her later tonight? I didn't think much of it , so i said sure. Went back to the area where i live around 2am, and she said lets see one another now. So she came to see me, kissed me uncontrollably for about 10 mins. She said she got jealous seeing me, going to a club, thinking I'm going to be picking up girls or something, which was never my intention, it was just to have some fun with the guys As she's leaving, i asked her, what's happening with us, and she said just give me a few weeks. I was like fine, and as soon as i woke up, there was messages from her on my phone, saying how i made her whole night
HappyLove Posted March 29, 2014 Posted March 29, 2014 Sounds like a drama queen and you're there for her any time she snaps her fingers. She says jump you say how high. Have fun playing this 'my family will never accept you' game for the next few years. Why continue wasting a few more years when according to her it's never going to happen anyway? You need to know if your wasting your time if marriage and children are your plans for the future. I'd demand that you meet the parents. I wouldn't be surprised if she's making this up to add a little excitement to her life. Who wants to play mind games for what another 6 years?
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