bigbill647 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Ok I met this girl. She approached me and we seemed to hit it off real well and she gave me her number. But that was a month ago and we haven’t made it to the first date yet. We planed to but she's canceled it 4 times now. We talk every day or 2 and she keeps saying how much she likes me and has even told her friends on facebook about me but a day or 2 before the date something always seems to come up and she cancels. She's always tells me how sorry she is and offers a time to reschedule. And she gives reasons why she has to cancel that seem to check out and arn't her fault but since happens every time I’m staring to wonder. I'm starting to really like this girl but either somethings up here or we're the unluckiest daters ever. I'm really not sure what to do or how to approach her about this?
Fondue Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Focus on other women. You can keep this one on the back burner, but don't attach yourself to her needlessly. Let her do the legwork until you guys finally go on a date. She seems sketchy. So it's time for you to peel back a little bit. 2
quidproquo89 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Ok I met this girl. She approached me and we seemed to hit it off real well and she gave me her number. But that was a month ago and we haven’t made it to the first date yet. We planed to but she's canceled it 4 times now. We talk every day or 2 and she keeps saying how much she likes me and has even told her friends on facebook about me but a day or 2 before the date something always seems to come up and she cancels. She's always tells me how sorry she is and offers a time to reschedule. And she gives reasons why she has to cancel that seem to check out and arn't her fault but since happens every time I’m staring to wonder. I'm starting to really like this girl but either somethings up here or we're the unluckiest daters ever. I'm really not sure what to do or how to approach her about this? there must be a reason why she is avoiding your dates. Four times isn't by accident. Ask her what is really going on. She sounds nervous. I would say she isn't interested as she keeps cancelling, but she keeps saying about rescheduling - unless shes trying to let you down gently. This is all guess work. You simply have to ask 1
Author bigbill647 Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 I really don't think she's trying to let me down gently. Like I said we talk every day or so and usually she'll be the one to call or text me. I'm just not sure how to ask her without coming across as a bit of a jerk. I mean I don't really want to call her a liar. And if she is worried about the first date I don't want to make things worse.
quidproquo89 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 asking a question about where things are going wont make you appear to be a jerk. Maybe just use some tact. Ask in the middle of a conversation and handle it gently
Lipitor11 Posted March 23, 2014 Posted March 23, 2014 Wow. Sounds like she's flaking out. If she keeps having to reschedule for the 10 or 20th time, then its time to move on to another girl. Some people just like to play someone for a fool. 1
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