jcm101 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 So i've been hanging out with a girl from Tinder from my college. First went on a couple of dates but now just hang out and basically f buddies. I thought she was GF material originally but just dont like her like that anymore and honestly getting bored of the sex. We talk about things that a GF/BF wouldn't (like other sexual partners and such) so she may think we're just f buddies, but I think she really likes me. Texts me every day, says how she wants to see me soon, etc. I don't want to lead her on and just keep hooking up if it's going no where.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 So i've been hanging out with a girl from Tinder from my college. First went on a couple of dates but now just hang out and basically f buddies. I thought she was GF material originally but just dont like her like that anymore and honestly getting bored of the sex. We talk about things that a GF/BF wouldn't (like other sexual partners and such) so she may think we're just f buddies, but I think she really likes me. Texts me every day, says how she wants to see me soon, etc. I don't want to lead her on and just keep hooking up if it's going no where. So stop hooking up with her. Don't take the initiative to make contact. Tell her you'd prefer to only be on friendly terms with her, but nothing more. 1
jrh1524 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Dump her like girls always do us guys: just quit responding.
deathandtaxes Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Simple. Tell her you can't see her any more.
smackie9 Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Grow some ballz and just be honest with her that you are not that into her or you could give her some fluff about your feelings not progressing and you don't want to lead her on.
Author jcm101 Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 Yeah, you guys are right. How should I do it? Through text, call, in person? Nice girl so i'd rather not just stop responding, im not a dick like that.
GemmaUK Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Just by text. I dumped my 7 month relationship by text because I didn't want him talking me around again. I don't care if folk don't like it. Sometimes it's the best way.
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