darry Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 Hi i'm curious how many of you have gotten a second chance after taking your ex bf/gf for granted? My r/s of 1.5 years with my ex gf ended 1 month 3 weeks ago and i'm on NC day 17 now as a dumpee. She went back to her ex long term bf 1 week after our brkup. I know she is seeing someone after the brkup but i have no idea it's her ex BF until i heard it from my brother. Is it possible he could be a rebound or it's over for me? One day i'm fine and another i'm struggling to send her a text/email. Btw i have no idea how long did they last but as far as i know i'm her longest BF.
MrWhite Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 (edited) NC - read the forum. She will do what she wants to do. You do what you want or need to do. Your job is to do your thing. Be a better person, improve yourself, go somewhere, work, school, etc... She will need to come back to you, do nothing to "make" her come back. Yes, most likely in a rebound. Jumping to another person is method to find a new environment and new group of people to be with. Wait it out, but don't wait around. Edited March 22, 2014 by MrWhite
Author darry Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 It can be still a rebound even though that's her ex bf? Yeah i'm working really hard to improve myself. But some days i just can't help but want to send out the text that i saved in draft then i start thinking again... if i sent now, my NC would be back to 0.. Thanks for the reply i appreciate everything here
MrWhite Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Letting her go, is to free yourself also. 100% NC Best outcomes are with NC and doing your own thing.
lamis Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 It can be still a rebound even though that's her ex bf? Sure, it could be a rebound, though it isn't likely. But she left you, and you need to proceed as if there is no chance of you two getting back together, otherwise you will be obstructing your healing process. Continue to be NC and realize that everything will be ok in the end, even without her. That's the only way to go.
Author darry Posted March 23, 2014 Author Posted March 23, 2014 Yes i'm still working hard towards my NC and current at day 19. I can only pray her current BF which is her ex LTR bf is a rebound.
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