dazedandconfuse5 Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 Hey so I was wondering if I'm reading between the lines here. My ex and I broke up and left the door open about starting a new relationship when we were able to deal with some issues we were having in life. We broke up on agreeable terms but she was the one to end it. She told me that she does love me and that when she was ready she would reach out to me. Well lately she has been showing up on my social media more and more. She has liked a couple of pictures of me on instagram and if I make a snapchat story she will check each day. This has started a little less then a week ago we broke up about a month ago and haven't talked I have been busy and I have noticed her checking more and more. Now I guess my question is why show so much interest but no just write me. We use to live together and I have some stuff of her's that is very important to her and she hasn't asked for it back yet. I'm not sure if she is slowly working into contacting me or if like i said I'm just reading it wrong. Would like some feedback if this is a slow way of reaching out and should I just hang out and see what happens or write a message of some sort to her. I know she isn't seeing someone else. Any feed back is appreciated
KaliLove Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 Yup, you're reading too much into it. If she wants to talk to you, she will reach out. 2
DannyCA Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 Yup, you're reading too much into it. If she wants to talk to you, she will reach out. I agree. You guys broke up on good terms, but she was the one to end it still, leave it at that. Don't read into this as much as you are and just stay NC. You guys broke up so your friendship/relationship ended that moment she broke up with you. You don't have anything to do with her anymore. She's curious about what you have been up to, that's why she is checking in on you. Leave it at at least she's still thinking about you. If she contacts or you bump into her be amicable, but remember you guys aren't anything together anymore until the days she says "i want to get back together". 2
Author dazedandconfuse5 Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 Thanks for the response would it be best to just let her check it out as she wants or remove her? I also have some of her stuff she left with me as she was suppose to move back with me after she got through her issues but I haven't heard from her about it and it is some stuff she wouldn't leave behind. Also would it be wrong if I checked her stuff out or just leave it be? Thanks in advance.
No Limit Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Leave her be entirely. And as soon as she starts talking about meeting up and waving all advances off as "I don't know" she's just trying to keep you in her backyard. And as soon as that happens, remove her. You're not her dog.
lolablue17 Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 stay NC. If you want to speed up things, block and unfriend her from all of your social media. As a reaction she will: 1. reach out for you. 2. Disappear. either way it will clarify your situation.
Author dazedandconfuse5 Posted March 24, 2014 Author Posted March 24, 2014 not hoping she disappears Is it just a sign to be mature we both still had feeling for each other but needed to do some things on our own for our selves. I'm just not sure I didn't contact her like anything of hers for the past 5 weeks so it's just confusing.
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