HappyLove Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 With as gross as this guy is, and as much as I think she should have nothing to do with him, someone is hardly lucky if someone is not a killer. Most people are not killers. Statistically, you'd have to go to a lot of people's houses before you ran into a killer, and probably more before someone who was a threat to you. That's hardly luck. Keep telling yourself that!
RedRobin Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 (edited) Any guy who bins women into ones who are just 'good for sex' and others who are 'good for a relationship' is not only a player, but a hypocrite. He told her how he views women... This isn't a man I'd consider for a relationship... Heck, it's not even a man I'd consider for a fun shag. He sounds like a jerk and full of himself. Not sure why so many women worry about how much a guy likes them, or says he likes them. There is nothing appealing about this guy in my book. About the OP playing him. I dunno. I don't see that. She's just being cautious. But, in my world, I don't see anything to be cautious about at this stage. He's already shown he's a jerk. A more honest one than some, but still not someone I'd get involved with. Edited: I hate the word 'player' too... A liar is a liar. People who pretend to have feelings for someone are just evil... no matter what it is they are after. If she doesn't like the guy and she is pretending to like him just so he will chase her... yea, that's evil. If he isn't really into her, and just pretends he is so she'll sleep with him... yea, that's evil. Both are the same in my book... Edited March 21, 2014 by RedRobin
Conners Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 TINDER!! No.No.No Why do girls think tinder is a dating website? 2
Author madgirl1991 Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 Well thanks for your advice everyone. I am glad u agreed with my approach. And yes I think I did have some wrong thoughts..a but playerish. I ruined it all in one night. I asked him to see me spontaneously at 9pm friday. He said yes but I misunderstood that he was busy, and said hm ur always busy to do random things this wont work. We should stay friends. He got angry and said he had just said he would see me. But nevermind. Then I said did u even like me? U can fess up now! He said of course I like you. I treated you well and tried to show you I like you. How can u get angry at mw for being busy when you havent even made it clear you like me? I was with someone in he past who I showed a lot of love to who didnt see it. Im not going to deal with insecure girls anymore. I said I really liked him too. Im not insecure I just have preferences to see people I like more often amd spontaneously. Lets meet and talk in person. Then I went to his house. It was midnight. We got ice cream at maccas and I asked if we could eat in his room. I slid into his bed he showed me his music collection. We cuddled and then he was like argh ur so sexy and I said lets have sex. He was like whoa i wasnt expecting that. It was awkward and terrible! But wr laughed and cuddled after and he said he had told his friends he likes me. I left at four am. Asked when id see him again he said how about sunday? It was lie saying bye to a bf more secure now...
Author madgirl1991 Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 He texted me this morning and we laughed about last night. Its night now, he just said he would still like to see me tomorrow. He has something in the arvo but cam cancel it if needed.
Gaeta Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Then I went to his house. It was midnight. We got ice cream at maccas and I asked if we could eat in his room. I slid into his bed he showed me his music collection. We cuddled and then he was like argh ur so sexy and I said lets have sex. He was like whoa i wasnt expecting that. It was awkward and terrible! But wr laughed and cuddled after and he said he had told his friends he likes me.. So you volunteered to put another used condom in his bedroom bin. 4
whirl3daway Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 this thread taught me that australians call mcdonalds "maccas". 1
veggirl Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 :eek: That escalated quickly. I thought you weren't going to sleep with him. I wonder if you were even the first of the day! Or the only one over the course of the weekend So did you ask if you are in the "girls for sex" or "girls to date" category? 1
hasaquestion Posted March 26, 2014 Posted March 26, 2014 Any guy who bins women into ones who are just 'good for sex' and others who are 'good for a relationship' is not only a player, but a hypocrite. He told her how he views women... This isn't a man I'd consider for a relationship... Heck, it's not even a man I'd consider for a fun shag. He sounds like a jerk and full of himself. Not sure why so many women worry about how much a guy likes them, or says he likes them. There is nothing appealing about this guy in my book. About the OP playing him. I dunno. I don't see that. She's just being cautious. But, in my world, I don't see anything to be cautious about at this stage. He's already shown he's a jerk. A more honest one than some, but still not someone I'd get involved with. Edited: I hate the word 'player' too... A liar is a liar. People who pretend to have feelings for someone are just evil... no matter what it is they are after. If she doesn't like the guy and she is pretending to like him just so he will chase her... yea, that's evil. If he isn't really into her, and just pretends he is so she'll sleep with him... yea, that's evil. Both are the same in my book... What's wrong with good for sex versus good for a relationship? The standards for sex are lower than a relationship. Realistically there are people who will fall into that category.
RedRobin Posted March 27, 2014 Posted March 27, 2014 What's wrong with good for sex versus good for a relationship? The standards for sex are lower than a relationship. Realistically there are people who will fall into that category. From whose perspective?? The person doing the binning or the person being binned? Because I do neither one and I don't want to be either one. The binner or the binned... and I wouldn't want a relationship with anyone who viewed another human being that way. That's just how I am. Seeing how it is mostly men who do that kind of binning... I wouldn't want him for either one. I prefer men who have sex with women they like and respect... They don't use women as just something to stick their d*ck into. My observation of men who bin women is that they don't really LIKE women all that much. Not a good risk for anything... Sex OR a relationship.
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