Author quidproquo89 Posted March 24, 2014 Author Posted March 24, 2014 Something looks dodgy here. I checked in on the girl I mentioned here, not in a creepy way I just wanted to see how she was getting on so I scrolled a few posts and a few pics. I noticed her in a pic with an ex in June, who she is till friends with and still likes her fresh posts on facebook. This can't be the same guy that emotionally abused her, can it? She told me that she broke up with someone in August who was abusive, I figured it was someone after this guy who is still on her facebook. But there isn't time is there if they are in a facebook picture together in June? Hope this doesn't sound awful and stalkerish, it just popped in my head and I worried I been lied to I know it must seem weird I'm still thinking about this, and I hope I don't come across as obsessive. But I can't help feel that this girl I dated, lied to me and mad up that her ex was abusive and was getting over that - just to get rid of me so that she could go back to her ex. Seems really ****ed up and I can't get it out of my head. That someone would make up a lie like that, so that they can go back with their ex. I really feel like contacting her and asking her whether this is true. I know its an awful idea 0 it just annoys me how this has been handled. There is no way I have this wrong is there?
SpringBaby Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 Don't trust anything early on. Action speaks louder than words. I went on a date with an Olympic ice skater once, and we made out in my car for a long while. Hot and steamy. I totally thought she wanted to pursue this further, but she kept giving me BS about being busy. When I stopped texting her, she stopped too. Obviously she wasn't interested. Wasn't interested or playing games, I went through something similar. I say the latter because if a person is not interested, you know. I make sure a guy knows when I'm not interested. I'm standoffish, generic, and "friendly." No way in hell am I going to be making out with him. People are just getting faker and flakier.
SpringBaby Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 I know it must seem weird I'm still thinking about this, and I hope I don't come across as obsessive. But I can't help feel that this girl I dated, lied to me and mad up that her ex was abusive and was getting over that - just to get rid of me so that she could go back to her ex. Seems really ****ed up and I can't get it out of my head. That someone would make up a lie like that, so that they can go back with their ex. I really feel like contacting her and asking her whether this is true. I know its an awful idea 0 it just annoys me how this has been handled. There is no way I have this wrong is there? You're probably right but one thing I have learned in my 41 years is that people who didn't appreciate you always try to get you back. I know this happens with men, I'm not sure if this happens with women too. I have always gotten the last laugh in situations like this all while holding my peace and staying classy. See if it happens, trust me, it feels great! I think because the silence is worse, they can't figure out what going on with you so they reach out. I don't know but don't drive yourself mad, life is too short. 1
Author quidproquo89 Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 You're probably right but one thing I have learned in my 41 years is that people who didn't appreciate you always try to get you back. I know this happens with men, I'm not sure if this happens with women too. I have always gotten the last laugh in situations like this all while holding my peace and staying classy. See if it happens, trust me, it feels great! I think because the silence is worse, they can't figure out what going on with you so they reach out. I don't know but don't drive yourself mad, life is too short. thanks I appreciate the support, I feel a little better today it was the initial reaction of oh crap, this lie hurts a bit you know. Gonna make the most of the day and that should buck things up 1
SpringBaby Posted March 25, 2014 Posted March 25, 2014 thanks I appreciate the support, I feel a little better today it was the initial reaction of oh crap, this lie hurts a bit you know. Gonna make the most of the day and that should buck things up Awesome, it was my pleasure, have a great day my friend. 1
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