Runnergirl967 Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Theres this guy who I am interested in and he's the local bar's bouncer. I want to let him know I'm interested without coming off too strong since we've never really spoken besides me saying thank you after he checks my ID...... Anyway I want to buy him a drink and have the bartender deliver it but he's always working (i doubt he can drink on the job) and Ive thought about handing him my number when leaving the bar but I feel that might be too much. How should i make the first move?? It would be so much easier if he wasn't working! I just don't want to get an undesired reaction because he has to be professional or whatever.
d0nnivain Posted March 20, 2014 Posted March 20, 2014 Just talk to him during the lulls in the action at the bar / door. When I wanted a bouncer's attention back in the day, I'd always offer the big strong guy a shoulder rub. Worked every time. He may have a GF. If he doesn't & you want to get involved are you going to be strong enough to sit there night after night & watch other women flirt with him? Don't send him a drink. he shouldn't drink on the job & even if he does, he can get his drinks waaaayyyy cheaper than what you will pay.
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