Strongusername Posted March 21, 2014 Posted March 21, 2014 whether she made that comment for you to see or not - you HAVE to block her dude - if you don't you will suffer the thoughts - believe me man - it's better you didn't see that she's going away - isn't it? know this.. she is most likely not having as much fun as you think she is... so, get on with your own thing - try to!! and in the meantime - you need to eliminate ANY sign of her... for me, even seeing my Ex "liking" the status of others i am friends with - has given me fuel for thought... that fuel.. what prevents us from moving on... Cold Turkey only works if there's NOTHING... not even tiny little signs like that... GOOD LUCK. I'm in the same situation right now,2 months breakup, 2 weeks nc after limited contact,her picking up stuff at my house, Common sense tells to block her and move on,not looking at her facebook/instagram to allow me to heal, but on the other hand I don't want to show I'm struggling with moving on Also, in the back of my mind I wish she contacts me to say she made a mistake
ponchsox Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 I have to admit, I check my ex GFs Facebook page every couple months. We're not friended but she posts publicly. She's got nothing going on in her life since me, no surprise. When her posts get one like I have to chuckle. Even I get a few and I post on a Facebook like twice per year.
Author jstew2000 Posted March 22, 2014 Author Posted March 22, 2014 I finally took the advice of everyone and blocked my ex on all social media. I think I'm going to lay off social media for a while anyways. I'm still soo torn up inside, I miss her like crazy, and I still think about her all day everyday. I just can't see her pictures being so happy without me, or knowing what she's doing anymore. It's awful and torturous. I'm back a 1 week NC after breaking it after 5 weeks. It's 8 weeks post breakup now. She truly doesn't care about me and it's been proven. So it's time to truly really let go this time. I'm powerless and there's nothing I can do to save our relationship. I'm not wanted, and I need to build back my confidence, self esteem, and self worth again. This is the hardest thing I've ever gone through in life... Even harder mentally than a drug addiction I had years ago. I don't think I'll ever understand why this is happening. Thanks for all the support guys! People on here have helped me so much. Even though the pain is still there, i know eventually it will fade.
mammasita Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 Great attitude to have. It does suck and it hurts, but you did the right thing.....and trust me it does get better.
picnicinthepark Posted March 22, 2014 Posted March 22, 2014 I recently did the same. It's been over 2 months since the BU and I know what you mean when you say how painful it is to check up on them. I have weak moments (recently broke NC after about 5 weeks) every now and then but removing her from all social media has helped immensely. Again, you also need self control in order to not slip but it does get easier. Focus on yourself and everything is going to be okay!
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