alexjames Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Ive been single for a few months now (Had 2 girlfriends in my life and am 22 on Monday!) The first lasted 10 months roughly (I loved her so much and she left me, and this was back in Feb' 2013 and I still think of her everyday) and the second was back in October, which only lasted 2/3 months but I think of her all the time aswell!! I really don't like being single! I met my first online and the second was through a work mate, so I haven't actually ever met someone the ''normal'' ways. I go to bed at night and lay there, wishing I had someone to hold and cuddle and wake up wishing I had someone to enjoy a lovely day with! It literally take up all my thoughts! I'm not a bad guy. I put everyone first, am caring and loving, I want a girl to love, not to have ''fun'' with and just walk off. And I would never hurt anybody, but I look about 6 years younger than I am, I'm fairly short and don't have much confidence. I go out quite often on nights outs etc, but I NEVER get any female attention, and if I offer to buy a girl a drink or dance etc, or even just try and talk to her, they always walk off! I cant see things changing for me, and I hate it!!
David87 Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Do things always get better?! Yes they do if you let them happen. Look you seem like a nice guy but you don't have enough confidence. Start dating, get rejected, fail etc then try again. The key to success is to never give up. To give you an example. Last week I was at a club right,there I saw a girl that I've met a week before. She didn't liked me that much I sayd hello how are you fine etc bleah beah .... She asks me what are you up to an I said I'm just looking around and she replied well look around somewhere else ) She blew me off in an instance. So I take a tour around the club but I end up back at her. We start to talk and I end up spending my entire night with the girl. The next day I invited her to coffee she said yes. It was cool. Hope you got the point of my story.
Gaeta Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 Ive been single for a few months now (Had 2 girlfriends in my life and am 22 on Monday!) The first lasted 10 months roughly (I loved her so much and she left me, and this was back in Feb' 2013 and I still think of her everyday) and the second was back in October, which only lasted 2/3 months but I think of her all the time aswell!! I really don't like being single! I met my first online and the second was through a work mate, so I haven't actually ever met someone the ''normal'' ways. I go to bed at night and lay there, wishing I had someone to hold and cuddle and wake up wishing I had someone to enjoy a lovely day with! It literally take up all my thoughts! I'm not a bad guy. I put everyone first, am caring and loving, I want a girl to love, not to have ''fun'' with and just walk off. And I would never hurt anybody, but I look about 6 years younger than I am, I'm fairly short and don't have much confidence. I go out quite often on nights outs etc, but I NEVER get any female attention, and if I offer to buy a girl a drink or dance etc, or even just try and talk to her, they always walk off! I cant see things changing for me, and I hate it!! Yes there is always something better waiting for us if we are open to learn along the way. I don't even remember the names of men I dated 10 years ago. Break ups are hard but they pass, they always do. Here is what I would like to tell you. Life is full of challenges and rewards other then romantic relationships. It sounds like you concentrate all your happiness on having someone else in your life. That is a trap for unhappiness. You need to find happiness within yourself THEN find someone to share it with. You need to build yourself up as a man and as a human being and that's what will attract women. It's knows we don't like men that seriously lack self-confidence. About getting female attention. What I will tell you is not very popular but it's the logic in my book. You are short and small then hit the gym!! Beef up a little, that will give you the well needed self-confidence you need and you will become a lady's magnet. It's all a matter of how much you want someone in your life. If you want a real change then put in the efforts. 1
gaius Posted March 19, 2014 Posted March 19, 2014 If they got better after the first they'll get better after the second. 1
Author alexjames Posted March 20, 2014 Author Posted March 20, 2014 I just cant see things improving. To the person who said about his night out, if I try and talk to a girl, she honestly takes one look at me and walks as far away as she possibly can from me, and if I go near them again, start shouting at me! Even if I just go up and say ''hey, would you like a drink?'' etc, you'd think I'd have shot her but the way she reacts to me! I just don't know what to do! I cant even get any replies online!!!
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